I would want a woman with some body count.

I can’t count that high. BillyMack was pretty good at Words with Friends back in the day.

I wouldn't want a man with a high body count.

No. it's just another reason to look down on people. and i'm not about that shit. it doesn't compute when you look at things like whether you would marry someone without sleeping with them first, versus how many relationships end... everyone is trying the merch before buying... the numbers kind of rack up, no? I would say as long as everyone is playing safe and honestly, don't worry about it as long as they haven't been doing it with your friends or family.🤷🏾‍♀ at least for me.

I'm going to have follow up questions if they say zero since I date around my age.

Nope. Not at all. I think a relationship count is probably far more important. Like if the other person had been in a ton of relationships that never worked out, you'd probably be curious why.

But as far as just sex? I couldn't care less. Most of that was probably single and being single isn't the same as a relationship. Plus at least they are experienced sexually.

All that matters is everybody is healthy. There are tests for that anyway.

Not very

I am glad I didn't know her body count when we were dating; but once we married, it didn't matter at all.

We Willy Wonka is just another piece of meat if judged so.
His real story is "Hey it was only a few and the first two were embarrassing learning experiences."
Oh what a mess I made too soon.

But now I'm good. oh the virility of younger days.

Damn I just depressed myself.

it’s not something i’ve ever pushed to know, but if she ever wanted to tell me i’d be more than happy to listen,

Not really. Let sleeping dogs lie.

If it’s wildly different than mine, then sure. It’s not information I’d be pushing to know though.