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How much time until the second date proposal? 🤨

Hi guys.

Last Friday I had this date with this guy we kissed and we said bye. The next morning we texted each other he said it was cool, I confirmed and I told him I enjoyed it.

But that’s all ! Still haven’t called or texted since last Saturday morning … is this normal?
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Text and tell him you have just baked cookies 🍪. I’d like to know his reaction 😅
mellie · 26-30, F
@Iknowyourouttheresomewhere I am not texting anyone
Convivial · 26-30, F
Why not text him.... Just say hi and do you feel like catching up again...
mellie · 26-30, F
@Convivial I can’t. I mean the last messages we exchanged I was the one who wrote and he put a heart reaction to it.
Convivial · 26-30, F
@mellie some guys can be pretty thick and need the occasional nudge....
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I’m with you about texting. I AM a dinosaur. Just saying.

If a man is interested, he’ll pursue. If he’s not pursuing, either he’s dealing with a crisis or he’s not serious.

Like you, I would wait.
hunkalove · 70-79, M
I would just wait and let him make the next move.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Just text, it’ll be cool
mellie · 26-30, F
@Strongtea Never.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Not normal at all!

WTF?
mellie · 26-30, F
@Strictmichael75 I know.. although I had a lot of good vibes after the date
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
@mellie How sad
You deserve better
4meAndyou · F
He is not interested.

In the distant past, guys used what is called the "3 day rule". They would deliberately wait three days before calling or texting a girl they had dated. They did this to PROVE they were in control of themselves, AND you! THAT is now obsolete.

If he hasn't thought about you or texted you in four days just forget him.
pdockal · 56-60, M
That depends on you
mellie · 26-30, F
@pdockal what do you mean?
pdockal · 56-60, M
@mellie

If it's acceptable to you then it's ok
If it's acceptable to you to reach out before he does then it's ok
Don't rely on what others say
Sapio · 51-55, M
He either wants you to go after him or he's not interested.
Akimbo75 · 46-50, F
Hey... so yes, it is normal behavior for some guys. Not reaching out is a message too, and you have received it, and I think you're very smart not to chase. Once they start playing games, I let them play with themselves and leave me out of it.
Mudkip · 31-35, M
It kinda sounds like he's not interested
No, it's not. He's either not interested or wants you to chase.
mellie · 26-30, F
@Magicianzini I don’t chase 😪
@mellie That's new.

 
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