Do you ever look back at your Ex’s

And wonder what you were thinking?! I used to date a quite gothy girl, she was kinda scary and I always felt like I didn’t quite fit with her and her friends. Maybe I was attracted to the danger or something.

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Tomorrow · 61-69, F

Lawd, yes!

MellyMel22 · F

Yes, but people tend to be different in the beginning.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

You’re right, she was pretty sweet to start with, but as I got to know her more, I suppose I saw what she was really like. She wasn’t horrible or anything, she was just into stuff that I wasn’t. @MellyMel22

MellyMel22 · F

@Strongtea I get that!

DancingStarGoddess ·

I was thinking of asking something similar the other day, but involving both exes and people we used to crush over. Sometimes I wonder what TF I was going through at the time on some of those..

Mmiker · 46-50, M

@DancingStarGoddess I know what you mean. At the time I have felt the need and then wtf.

Chern0bylplaygr0unds

Yes ....but I tend to think I was a different person who just had shitty taste in men lol ...live and learn

Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F

Yup, i think its normal. You're out of the honeymoon phase and you can see them for what they were.

Wildstrawberries · 41-45, F

I try not to but yep, it fits.
What was I thinking and who was I?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yeah, I look back now and she seems such an odd choice. She’s probs thinking the same thing. I know that she described my wife’s clothes/style as her idea of a nightmare @Wildstrawberries

Wildstrawberries · 41-45, F

@Strongtea good grief! And good riddance sounds like.,..

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yes, I think so. @Wildstrawberries

Floki · M

No I respect all my exes, they are good people. We just didn’t align at the time. Mate, if you dated a scary goth girl while feeling slightly out of place and slightly in danger, you knew exactly what you were thinking.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Maybe I did, it just feels strange now@Floki

Floki · M

@Strongtea That’s because you’re not the same bloke you were then. Doesn’t mean it was a mistake. Some people fit a particular version of you for a while and then you both move on.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yes, I suppose you’re right. @Floki

AdmiralPrune · 46-50, M

Oh I know what I was thinking. But that’s how your mind works when you’re 19. 😆

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