This dude isn't meant for me

You ain't so bad. I'll bet he wouldn't kick you outta bed for eating crackers!

Why wouldn't he want you? He's interested. Are you?

The family is gonna be a bunch of wackos.....but thats workable.l😂

What makes you think you’re not deserving? You have been in enough toxic relationships that you deserve to be treated for the person you are. You obviously have a lot in common so that’s a great start,

Pro tip: I’ve been on some dates with truly exceptional women and wondered WTF is she thinking hanging out with me?

The answer:

Does not matter. It’s her decision and I’m going to be the best me I can be and live my best life!


Please read and think about this.

I fear this is going to be me if I ever find a nice person to actually like me in this life.

But don’t let that ruin everything. You’re just not used to being treated well.

sometimes I think The only reason she just wanted to be friends is because she didn't know she deserved better and when I see post like this it reminds me of that fact.

Your not exactly twisting his arm , hes into you ,if you let this go youll rue the day for a long time.

Nah, that's that old programming talking. He's seen something in you. Accept it even if it feels scary at times. Purely because you owe yourself the chance to experience genuine care.

Honestly i remember you posting something similar before. You deserve good things in your life. He probably see things you dont see in yourself because all you see is the negative. Work on yourself otherwise you will have the same pattern with what you had with your ex.

stop putting yourself down,u just dont wanna change and afraid to change