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Should I cancel the date?

I have another date with the guy I saw last weekend. We're just gonna see a movie this afternoon. But after last night, I don't know if I should go. 😔

My current roommate is also my recent ex. He doesn't know I'm seeing this new guy. And I'm afraid if ex finds out about New Guy, ex will spend the rest of my time here making me miserable because he knows I am locked into a lease on the house we rent until March 2027, and I have nowhere else to go. Right now, ex is being extremely fair and even kind to me. But if New Guy rolls up to pick me up this afternoon, I'm not sure ex's diplomatic behavior will continue.

I don't want to disappoint New Guy, but I also definitely don't want to ruffle the feathers of a temperamental man who could very easily make my remaining time in this house much worse. 😓
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Sapio · 51-55, M
Don't cancel the date. Make arrangements to meet the New Guy somewhere. Put your happiness first.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
Go on your date. Do not let your ex make you miserable.
I hope you didn't cancel ...just make other arrangements to meet him
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
Go on the date
separatetheheart · 31-35, M
Have him pick you up a street over or if there is a park you could walk to nearby.
Krazykatie · 31-35, F
Then don't disappoint the new guy. Besides a little risk makes it more fun
Mmiker · 46-50, M
@Krazykatie a lot more fun
Pretzel · 70-79, M
just meet him somewhere
Ann99 · 41-45, F
Take care of yourself first 🩷If he truly likes you he'll understand There will always be another day for a movie
Selah ·
You should've been lying to that man ages ago 😆. Your life would be much easier. Tell him he's the Uber driver or your brother that just got out of prison for murder. If he makes your life difficult, make his worse.
GovanDUNNY · M
Let them have it out on the cobbles, winner gets you .
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
You’re not into the new guy. Stop dating him!
LeGrotesque · 41-45, F
@Muthafukajones I am very into him!!!!
Younameit · F
Is your ex not over it ?
LeGrotesque · 41-45, F
@Younameit he said some things last night that made me wonder
Younameit · F
@LeGrotesque Maybe cause he realizes that he lost you. Men smh
WasEP · 51-55, M
Go on the date, if you don’t go and continue doing the same thing over and over, that is the definition of insanity
Don't let the new guy pick you up keep it secret lie you're meeting friends if you know ex is unhinged.
And go by yourself to meet up.
It's going to get ugly eventually unfortunately
eMortal · M
Nope. Go and have fun. It's gonna be hard to explain your situation to the new guy though.
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
If telling the truth will cause retaliation, lie. Nature lies. Your ex doesn't get to flip back and forth and expect you to follow. Meet your date down the block. Find a way to go have fun.
Banksy83 · 41-45, M

 
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