What if someone had too many issues to find love /date?

You are dealing with the same issues when in a new environment, dating especially.. You get to the point nothing makes sense. You have a very valid concern. I would love to look into your eyes and tell you everything will be alright. Give you a tight hug with plenty of supportive words. Maybe hold your hand and calm you with warmth and honesty. Bay breeze you will be ok. I support you and will have your back. I am rooting for you. You are so beautiful, never give up on yourself. These are just roadblocks that you will overcome through patience and faith. If we were closer I would take you out on many dates. You are that important

Could you double date with friends?

Baby steps. Just hang loose and don't worry.

If we were neighbors I'd hang out with you.

I do everything alone and have no friends. Not even work friends. Yet we are all fairly friendly with each other at work. Even with the people that annoy me, LOL! But we are all paid to work together, of course!

You must accept that what was one to you was not your fault. It was the fault of a deranged mind who blamed you for his problems. Probably still does. But those problems are his & his alone & he must accept responsibility.
Then you must realize that you have great value. God created you for a specific reason & a specific person. You may have already met them.
You must o all you can to regain your self-esteem.
If you would like to talk further, please Private Message me. I'll do all I can to help you become you again.

I wonder if a life coach would be helpful?
Everyone pushes thearphy , but life skills that were not taught in childhood cause a lot of anxiety, and we develop coping mechanisms that do not benefit us when we have traumatic experiences.
I think having better skills would help, but of course, I am not an expert.

i too have many issues,i wasnt liked in school and picked on dailey,as everyone knew my parents were drunks and druggies,parents told me to my face i was a mistake ,well in high school i finally made a friend,she was a chubby girl but we got along great,well the 5wo girl bull8es started calling us names and laughing ,well my new friend started crying ,they laughed harder,my years of abuse hit its boiling point,and lunged out,i hit that girl so hard in her nose,she will never breath correctly again ,i spun around grabbed the other by her hair and knocked her down and started banging her face of the concrete curb,till some grabb3d me and yelled aSTOP STOP YOUR KILLING HER ,from that day on i promised myself,not to let my past control me,im not completely cured,as every now and then the ghosts come back but you must put that behind you and look up and say no more,i have wr9te many poems,true life if you ever want to read