dating a woman who's previous partner died two years ago...

Woman is 57 (same age as me) and has an autistic 17 y/o daughter.

Her previous partner died 2 yrs ago.

Should I be concerned if I start dating her (assuming she wants to date me)?

Should I probe for details around her partner's death to make sure she didn't cause it?

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peterlee · M

They say two years. But we are all very different.
No, let it come from her. Just be ready to listen.

No way did she cause it, I can’t see how you could even consider that.

Her daughters grieve will be there.