Have you ever been stuck in an intimate moment frozen with fear about what to do next?

I've had it once. With someone I tried dating for a short time in 2020 2 yrs after leaving my second ex.

I got stuck in a kissing situation and was too scared to do anything more. Felt so awkward and was a really nice but very confronting and anxious situation. Kissed without any extra intimate contact or touching/exploration for like an hour standing up.

Was unable to find courage or confidence to go any further and she also did nothing like I was expected to take the lead. Was so wierd almost surreal and I called it the Matrix Moment thereafter.

Ditched the woman not long after as it was getting toxic fast. No dating since.