Apparently some men now submit potential dates/partners to 'gold digger tests' before commiting to them

This is, for want of a better phrase, gold!

Women try to 'test' men all the time in dating and relationships, so why can't men flip the script and apply the same mindset to women? 8-)

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Adogslife · 61-69, M

I met my current wife on Match. I definitely stated outright that I was looking for someone self supporting. I divorced 33 years of eye candy. No way I was doing that again. Ever.

It’d probably been 30 years since I’d received a Christmas (e.g.) present that I didn’t pay for. It’s weird now wondering what Christmas didn’t cost me (as I remarried a couple years ago).

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Adogslife The best 'presents' are the ones you work for and pay for yourself. That doesn't extend to 'working for and paying to support' a woman who is too lazy to otherwise support herself as her own person first.