What helps you not put too much pressure on dating?

I simply don't date, b/c I feel SO much PRESSURE. I feel I am not enough (I am working on it a lot). When you have PtSD plus an anxiety disorder that is a good part of your life, you don't exactly feel like men are going to jump to be with you. :( But, it also sucks NEVER, ever dating b/c of it. How can I just look at dating as not so serious and keep overthinking how a guy may leave me? I just want to feel relaxed and look at it as just a fun night, but it is so hard to do b/c I don't know if a guy wants something serious. I need to go slow, and I know many don't. HELP

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mindlessdrifter · M

I feel the same way sometimes but I think it's more of a personality adjustment: being too shy, scared, nervous, abuse issues,etc. Since my divorce and relocation I am resigned to the fact I am not what I want to be. It's a quandary that enters my heart and mind. Maybe you and I are kindred spirits. Don't give up you have a lot to offer and I will always be your support 💖

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@mindlessdrifter aww I will support you as well🌺

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