Asking
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »
arceus23 · 36-40, M
I think if there is an honest connection, I would say no such thing as too fat, so long as both people are into it. It is still a good idea to set some limits for yourself, like if you don't want to get to X weight.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
What sort of size@arceus23
arceus23 · 36-40, M
@Fatalice Size that I like? Well anywhere from 500 lbs to over 1000
Fatalice · 41-45, F
That’s very big I’m guessing you would be happy with an immobile girl@arceus23

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Once health is affected I think it’s a big problem. I’m all for body positivity, but not when it’s become a movement trying to tell very overweight people they can “be healthy at any size”, and to celebrate being big…. Celebrating an early grave? Celebrating immobility and low quality of life?

It’s dangerous, and being big should not be portrayed as a style choice, and I would say the same for going too far the other direction and restricting to a point of being severely underweight; affecting one’s health.

** I am in no way trying to be rude, or hurtful with what I say… it’s just very concerning to me. I agree people come in many shapes and sizes, and there is no “perfect” , but health should be most important if you care about yourself and those around you.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
The thing is I’m already very fat and unhealthy .I have a host of problems and my mobility is very poor 5 paces is about it. I’m 45 mr right has never appeared and I’m so lonely it hurts.food is my friend and comfort.however I have a date with a wonderful man who is a feeder and I can’t wait no more food guilt for me. @WaryWitchWandering
You are over 300 lbs too fat but likely a catfish
ArishMell · 70-79, M
For my height, which isn't much, anything over nine and a half stone.

Obesity is dangerous and nothing to be proud of. Obesity as some sort of fashion or fetish is downright foolish.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I’m obese trying to make the best of it@ArishMell
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
You should be very proud your a beautiful woman with a kind heart.@Fatalice
Fatalice · 41-45, F
You are so sweet thank you @Willomk1
200lbs is the most anyone needs to weigh. 200lbs isn’t necessarily dangerous. 600lbs is.
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
@Fatalice it might be a good move
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I’m not mobile or fit enough @lumberjackslam
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
@Fatalice I'm curious. Can you DM me 2 or 3 pics?
Not really for me to judge...... but, when it starts affecting your health and your well being, that should be enough to convince a person that some changes are in order. unless you have a death wish.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
It creeps on over time and you don’t always realise it’s happening.your home gets adapted to your needs and you stop going out@SheCallsMeCrushDaddy
TexChik · F
30 pounds over weight would easily be too much. I have always been an athlete and stay fit. I married an athlete that stays fit. Aside from esthetics, the health issues are daunting.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Well I’m long way past 30 so any bigger a no go. I have many health issues@TexChik
600 lbs😱

If one can’t seat in an airplane seat comfortably. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Well that would make my life a lot easier@deadteddy
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Not easy to make those changes from my position@BloviatingBuffoon
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
I really really really hope not. @deadteddy
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
When it starts to affect your health, your ability to buy new clothes hes, your ability to work, and finally your ability to be respected.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
That’s fairly covers my state@WintaTheAngle
Fatalice · 41-45, F
It’s good to know even at my size some people would date me
Markmywurdz · 56-60, M
@Fatalice I definitely would…
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
For me I’ve never dated or seen a woman I would consider too fat to date certainly not 600 skinny.just the bigger the better.
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
Jimbo7 · M
All women should be like Britney Spears, perfect
Jimbo7 · M
@Fatalice I meant no offence Shaz xx🫶🏻
Fatalice · 41-45, F
None taken but the thought of me in school uniform is terrifying lol oh baby baby@Jimbo7
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Jimbo7 Well, few of us can be as "perfect" as models, female or male; but we can at least try to look after ourselves reasonably well!
Markmywurdz · 56-60, M
I wouldn’t hesitate to date a woman who weighs 600 pounds…
swobct · 36-40, M
Many 600 lb women are very attractive to me. It's not too big at all. Unfortunately, I've found a lot of larger women want their partners to stay in shape. But I can't help but gain weight myself when I'm with a larger woman. As long as she doesn't mind me getting fatter while I'm with her, it's all good though.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Wonderful,no I would not mind a partner gaining weight as long as we’re both not disabled by it as I’m looking for someone to look after my care.@swobct
Mysorebottom · 51-55
When you go from regular clothes sizes to plus it should be a wake up call. Fat is not attractive on anyone andvopens you up to heart disease, lung problems, bone and joint issues etc. There is nothing pretty about it.
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
I think people can be very large and very attractive yes there are health issues but someone can be unhealthy and attractive.
There’s no point waiting to be thinner enjoy life now.@Mysorebottom
Fatalice · 41-45, F
That’s what I’m trying to do thank you@Willomk1
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Nobody’s body wants to be heavy and carry around extra weight.
If I date someone I want him to be healthy
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
I adore them very fat health problems come with the territory @Jenny1234
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I don’t want to carry the weight but I am I want someone who likes that@Jenny1234
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
If foreplay includes rolling you in flour to find the wet spot..
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Gosh that old chestnut , well I’m hoping to find someone who can find it without.@Thevy29
Adrift · 61-69, F
@Thevy29 When walk in a room and your butt cheeks create their own applause.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I don’t really do walking I’m wheeled places@Adrift
I hope you can overcome your mental disease
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I’m just fat@BeefySenpie
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
When you can’t reach down to trim your toenails should be a good clue.
Ali788 · 51-55, M
Fatalice · 41-45, F
That’s funny.
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
This is fascinating how many 600 pound female visitors we're getting these days.
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
Fails long term for over 95% of people@ArishMell
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
And if your 500 or 600 pounds little chance of sucess
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
But enabling can make their life easier,and they get pleasure from eating
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
I weigh about 180 so probably that much
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
@Fatalice your leg weighs 180? that would costa fortune at the butcher shop.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Well there’s a lot of fat for flavour.@lumberjackslam
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
@Fatalice 😋
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
what you should be asking is why people feel comfortable being that overweight, not "how big is too fat for you to date?" 🙄
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I’m hoping for company and food@Hanginginthere
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@Fatalice seems like you’ll never learn huh?? Oh well..
Fatalice · 41-45, F
He wants me and I overeat anyway@Hanginginthere
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
Katie01 · F
@Fatalice stfu
Fatalice · 41-45, F
What have I done to upset you@Katie01
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
This message was deleted by the author of the main post.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Oh if it was that simple@StevetheSleeve

 
Post Comment