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arceus23 · 36-40, M
I think if there is an honest connection, I would say no such thing as too fat, so long as both people are into it. It is still a good idea to set some limits for yourself, like if you don't want to get to X weight.
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WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Once health is affected I think it’s a big problem. I’m all for body positivity, but not when it’s become a movement trying to tell very overweight people they can “be healthy at any size”, and to celebrate being big…. Celebrating an early grave? Celebrating immobility and low quality of life?
It’s dangerous, and being big should not be portrayed as a style choice, and I would say the same for going too far the other direction and restricting to a point of being severely underweight; affecting one’s health.
** I am in no way trying to be rude, or hurtful with what I say… it’s just very concerning to me. I agree people come in many shapes and sizes, and there is no “perfect” , but health should be most important if you care about yourself and those around you.
It’s dangerous, and being big should not be portrayed as a style choice, and I would say the same for going too far the other direction and restricting to a point of being severely underweight; affecting one’s health.
** I am in no way trying to be rude, or hurtful with what I say… it’s just very concerning to me. I agree people come in many shapes and sizes, and there is no “perfect” , but health should be most important if you care about yourself and those around you.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
The thing is I’m already very fat and unhealthy .I have a host of problems and my mobility is very poor 5 paces is about it. I’m 45 mr right has never appeared and I’m so lonely it hurts.food is my friend and comfort.however I have a date with a wonderful man who is a feeder and I can’t wait no more food guilt for me. @WaryWitchWandering
SomeMichGuy · M
You are over 300 lbs too fat but likely a catfish
ArishMell · 70-79, M
For my height, which isn't much, anything over nine and a half stone.
Obesity is dangerous and nothing to be proud of. Obesity as some sort of fashion or fetish is downright foolish.
Obesity is dangerous and nothing to be proud of. Obesity as some sort of fashion or fetish is downright foolish.
Gingerbreadspice · F
200lbs is the most anyone needs to weigh. 200lbs isn’t necessarily dangerous. 600lbs is.
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
@Fatalice it might be a good move
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I’m not mobile or fit enough @lumberjackslam
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
@Fatalice I'm curious. Can you DM me 2 or 3 pics?
Not really for me to judge...... but, when it starts affecting your health and your well being, that should be enough to convince a person that some changes are in order. unless you have a death wish.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
It creeps on over time and you don’t always realise it’s happening.your home gets adapted to your needs and you stop going out@SheCallsMeCrushDaddy
TexChik · F
30 pounds over weight would easily be too much. I have always been an athlete and stay fit. I married an athlete that stays fit. Aside from esthetics, the health issues are daunting.
600 lbs😱
If one can’t seat in an airplane seat comfortably. 🤷🏻♀️
If one can’t seat in an airplane seat comfortably. 🤷🏻♀️
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Not easy to make those changes from my position@BloviatingBuffoon
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
When it starts to affect your health, your ability to buy new clothes hes, your ability to work, and finally your ability to be respected.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
That’s fairly covers my state@WintaTheAngle
Fatalice · 41-45, F
It’s good to know even at my size some people would date me
Markmywurdz · 56-60, M
@Fatalice I definitely would…
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
For me I’ve never dated or seen a woman I would consider too fat to date certainly not 600 skinny.just the bigger the better.
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Jimbo7 · M
All women should be like Britney Spears, perfect
Markmywurdz · 56-60, M
I wouldn’t hesitate to date a woman who weighs 600 pounds…
swobct · 36-40, M
Many 600 lb women are very attractive to me. It's not too big at all. Unfortunately, I've found a lot of larger women want their partners to stay in shape. But I can't help but gain weight myself when I'm with a larger woman. As long as she doesn't mind me getting fatter while I'm with her, it's all good though.
Mysorebottom · 51-55
When you go from regular clothes sizes to plus it should be a wake up call. Fat is not attractive on anyone andvopens you up to heart disease, lung problems, bone and joint issues etc. There is nothing pretty about it.
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
I think people can be very large and very attractive yes there are health issues but someone can be unhealthy and attractive.
There’s no point waiting to be thinner enjoy life now.@Mysorebottom
There’s no point waiting to be thinner enjoy life now.@Mysorebottom
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Nobody’s body wants to be heavy and carry around extra weight.
If I date someone I want him to be healthy
If I date someone I want him to be healthy
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
If foreplay includes rolling you in flour to find the wet spot..
BeefySenpie · M
I hope you can overcome your mental disease
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I’m just fat@BeefySenpie
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
When you can’t reach down to trim your toenails should be a good clue.
Ali788 · 51-55, M
Hi there
Fatalice · 41-45, F
That’s funny.
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
This is fascinating how many 600 pound female visitors we're getting these days.
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
And if your 500 or 600 pounds little chance of sucess
Willomk1 · 46-50, M
But enabling can make their life easier,and they get pleasure from eating
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
I weigh about 180 so probably that much
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
@Fatalice your leg weighs 180? that would costa fortune at the butcher shop.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Well there’s a lot of fat for flavour.@lumberjackslam
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
@Fatalice 😋
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
what you should be asking is why people feel comfortable being that overweight, not "how big is too fat for you to date?" 🙄
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I’m hoping for company and food@Hanginginthere
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@Fatalice seems like you’ll never learn huh?? Oh well..
Fatalice · 41-45, F
He wants me and I overeat anyway@Hanginginthere
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Fatalice · 41-45, F
Oh if it was that simple@StevetheSleeve