Dating in your 30s is weird Either people have lots of issues or they have lots of kids and I...

Fortunately for me, I stick to having lots of issues. Far less costly and no child support lol

im gonna say it but if adults are not open to dating other adults w children then they may not be ready to be dating anyone,full stop

MartinII · 70-79, M

What an unpleasant sentiment! There’s nothing wrong with dating at any age.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

Which one of those are you? 😆

Elessar · 26-30, M

This is very generalizing and ageist.

You can definitely be in your 30s and have both many issues and many kids

Theyitis · 36-40, M

The scary part for me is, I haven’t even made it that far yet! For me the problem is people are either already married or they’re too young. Single women close to my age either don’t exist in my town or they’re really good at hiding from me.

Jenny76 · 46-50, F

the only change that needs to be made to the above statement is the word "OR"
I think it should be "and / or"
* I guess also, perhaps it is a given, that the children have issues too.

2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M

I know was divorced and remarried at 40 was an 8 yr gap between marriages your perspective is so much different

666Maggotz · F

Heh no kids but my issues developed in childhood 😅 I never stood a chance

Howudoin · 46-50, M

Go for a struggling 22 year old with a kid or two that'll do anything for your support. Win win

OrionInTheNight

yea but women usually are way more mature, sometimes

they wont go around looking for the next shiny thing as often

people are more often ready to find a life partner and mean it

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JustGoneNow

I had the uncomfortable experience of dating in my 40’s after missing my 30’s all together. Fucking twilight zone, man. js

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

Mid 30s.
No kids, lots of issues.
Still ain't goin' stop me.

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

That's why I'm afraid to try it in my 40s.