Hmmmm, I'm easy going and not much of a club guy. I know, duh, at my age. First dates, somewhere to share food and talk, get to know each other a bit. After that, it depends on what's going on in the area at that time. Maybe a concert. If she's sporty like me maybe something physical. Indoor skydiving is great fun if she's adventurous. I like hiking and off roading. A trip to the gun range, if she enjoys that or wants to try. Romantic evenings might include me cooking for her, a massage, fire place, soft light and see where that goes. If were both randy and want to go for it, maybe a raucous body bumping in a nice hotel near the coast. If a quiet time seems in order, maybe just reading cuddled up on the couch with some wine and appetizers. There's all sorts of things to share.
