Pulling the breaks
I'm becoming so much more aware of myself.
I really don't know how else to describe it, but I am finally beginning to notice my pitfalls in the moment, and I am correcting them just as fast.
If something doesn't feel right to me in a relationship, no matter how much he may have swept me off of my feet 2 weeks ago... I have to remember that IT'S BEEN 2 WEEKS. Lol. At the beginning of a relationship I shouldn't feel this doldrum of pursuit and attention. It's literally only been a month. And at this point, I know the game. If he is no longer trying to pursue me, I am not going to continue to put in the effort to feel that magnetic feeling we felt in the beginning. I am going to step back, because obviously I'm not what he's looking for, or he's confused about what he's looking for.
I really don't know how else to describe it, but I am finally beginning to notice my pitfalls in the moment, and I am correcting them just as fast.
If something doesn't feel right to me in a relationship, no matter how much he may have swept me off of my feet 2 weeks ago... I have to remember that IT'S BEEN 2 WEEKS. Lol. At the beginning of a relationship I shouldn't feel this doldrum of pursuit and attention. It's literally only been a month. And at this point, I know the game. If he is no longer trying to pursue me, I am not going to continue to put in the effort to feel that magnetic feeling we felt in the beginning. I am going to step back, because obviously I'm not what he's looking for, or he's confused about what he's looking for.
31-35, F
