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Pulling the breaks

I'm becoming so much more aware of myself.
I really don't know how else to describe it, but I am finally beginning to notice my pitfalls in the moment, and I am correcting them just as fast.

If something doesn't feel right to me in a relationship, no matter how much he may have swept me off of my feet 2 weeks ago... I have to remember that IT'S BEEN 2 WEEKS. Lol. At the beginning of a relationship I shouldn't feel this doldrum of pursuit and attention. It's literally only been a month. And at this point, I know the game. If he is no longer trying to pursue me, I am not going to continue to put in the effort to feel that magnetic feeling we felt in the beginning. I am going to step back, because obviously I'm not what he's looking for, or he's confused about what he's looking for.
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
It only means that the honeymoon phase is over. Now, it's time to put in the work to keep the fire going.
TexChik · F
Or…maybe you two should just talk about what you are feeling. Misunderstandings ruin relationships. If it is what you believe , then you’ll know. If he’s starting to think he’s overdoing it and is afraid of scaring you off, you can reassure him . Men’s egos are very fragile and will disappear if the get the slightest misperception . 😉
You should talk it out he might understand and it will get better if not I’d say then u could decide.
He probably is experiencing the same feeling(s) you are.

Time to talk it out.....
Applepiedom · 56-60, M
Or the infatuation has worn off.

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