You don’t really know if you’re attracted to someone until you’ve gone on several dates with them

Good advice, yea or nay? Please explain your answer in the comments, that’s why I didn’t include a poll.

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You may be physically attracted to them, but until you get to know them well, you can't say you're attracted to who they [i]are.[/i]

Theyitis · 36-40, M

@DearAmbellina2113 I should have provided more context. There’s a girl I think would like to go out with me, but I don’t really feel motivated to ask her out. Should I ask her out anyway, even though I feel reluctant to do so, based on the principle that I don’t really know if I’m attracted to her or not because we haven’t gone on several dates together yet?

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@Theyitis Ask her out. The only way you can find out if you like her is to get to know her.

SexyKebab · 22-25, F

@DearAmbellina2113 I agree