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Why is chasing bad?

I was told to never chase a women. Nobody should be chasing anybody.

How do i pursuit them then? Is texting too much bad? Only to set up dates?
I really hope a 60 yo dude didn't just ask this question
Jorogumo · F
@BeefySenpie this seems to be the theme of this users posts lol
elafina · 31-35, F
Man I've seen your posts and I think she's not interested. Chasing is the worst, if the other doesn't reciprocate. Love is a dance, not a chase...
Nbayoungboy334 · 18-21, M
@elafina What does chasing mean? Does she have to message me first as well?
elafina · 31-35, F
@Nbayoungboy334 yes, she does. Think of balance... A woman who is interested will take some steps. If you are chasing them you are overwhelming them. It's almost scary and creepy. You wouldn't like someone coming strong on you like that, not leaving you any respect or space for action.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
You dont pursue. You just present yourself as being worthy of dating. Then they come to you.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@Nbayoungboy334 well. What do you think of yourself? If you seem like your desprate people view you as desperate.
Nbayoungboy334 · 18-21, M
@GuyWithOpinions As the man, most women want the man to pursuit them first
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@Nbayoungboy334 thats why you stand out when you dont. They might question why your not like other guys. It makes you intriguing.
akindheart · 61-69, F
NEVER chase. approach and if no interest, move on
Nbayoungboy334 · 18-21, M
@akindheart No ive been seeing this girl for a while. she use to message first but she dont anymore.

How can i ask her without being annoying?
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Nbayoungboy334 ask her how she feels about you. . you will know by how she answers. take your cue from that.
MorbidCynic · 26-30, F
Chasing is when you’re rejected and you still bother them. Just take the L in grace.
Tbh she no longer messages you because you are obsessive about her. That drove her off.

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