Why is chasing bad?

I was told to never chase a women. Nobody should be chasing anybody.

How do i pursuit them then? Is texting too much bad? Only to set up dates?

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elafina · 36-40, F

Man I've seen your posts and I think she's not interested. Chasing is the worst, if the other doesn't reciprocate. Love is a dance, not a chase...

Nbayoungboy334 · 22-25, M

@elafina What does chasing mean? Does she have to message me first as well?

elafina · 36-40, F

@Nbayoungboy334 yes, she does. Think of balance... A woman who is interested will take some steps. If you are chasing them you are overwhelming them. It's almost scary and creepy. You wouldn't like someone coming strong on you like that, not leaving you any respect or space for action.