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Why is it always the problem women/drama queens that are never afraid to make the first move?

obviously I'm talking from my own experience and I hope I am cause I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. though unfortunately I have male friends and relatives who have similar experiences.

anyways for some odd reason I never get hit on by nice girls. its always the type of women like Angelina Jolie in Girl, Interrupted (1999) and Evan Rachel Wood in Thirteen (2003) that are always interested in me. but I always wanted to know, why me? what damn curse do I have?

or are bad women just more confident? do they see me as something "useful?"

Why is it always the problem women/drama queens that are never afraid to make the first move?
[b][c=A69800]No idea sorry. We don't know you and how u are in real life but maybe coz they are confident or full of themselves and think they can act the way they do which is a shame.




Also can be the way they where brought up and where they come from plus who they hang around with in life e.g. friends at primary school, high school, uni or college..



They might not give a shit about other people (pardon the language).



Some people are all about the drama and such things sadly.



There is more to life than that.


Maybe you give off a signal or something and they like you.


I dunno but I hope you find a girl that is kind, funny, cares for others and more good qualities about her. [/c][/b]
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I don’t know anything about you, don’t know your culture, but all I can say is, nice girls get their hearts ripped out. Nice people in general. If you’ve gotten to know a nice girl, you should ask her out. We don’t want to do all the freaking work over and over and get treated like crap because we’re nice.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Yeah, I think people who are… predatory inherently have issues. It’s important to cut those people loose right away the second you notice the red flag rather than indulge it before it gets even worse.

I do wonder what you mean by drama though? Can you give a couple examples of theatrics that you find inappropriate?

Naturally, only you would be able to answer this for yourself, so it’s more of a rhetorical question, but I’d be asking myself what am I doing that comes off as inaccessible to healthy, grounded people? (Why are the healthy people not hitting on me). Stuff to do with body language, how we spend our time, our own self-esteem, the kind of people we hang out with etc.
SilverMakkari · 36-40, M
@WhateverWorks when I mean drama queens I mean women who literally love drama. such as those who...

- who tend to be hoodlums
- love picking fights with other girls
- love to innitiate fights between you and other dudes
- love to pick fights and quarrels with you at innapropriate time and places
- are toxic during relationships
- have daddy issues

and the liss goes on
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Yeah, those kind of people would definitely have more confrontational flirting @SilverMakkari
It’s probably a mix between confidence and culture. I consider myself pretty modern but I still can’t get past the mindset of only the man makes the first move. So when you mix in a confident person who isn’t stuck in the past, and have another portion of the population who thinks it’s not their place, you get less of a filter for the bad apple.
I'm thought ya asked something else 😪

This is just how arrogant people are
SilverMakkari · 36-40, M
@sexyjigsaw so me having preference and chosing to live a life free of drama makes me "arrogant."

Jesus, exactly how feminized has our society gotten?
@SilverMakkari nononono, I am describing these drama queens as arrogant, not you ,_,

I was tired last night at like 3 AM replying so excuse my lack of clarity

But no :v
You're good and deserve your preferences, and people who have no fear causing problems usually expect to sass or "trouble" their way out of a situation. So they'll make the moved they want hoping people don't stop them
I don't know but the simple solution is to reject any propositions since you only get problem women right?
Alison · 18-21, F
All women are crazy, i suggest you go gay.
I like crazy myself so Im gay.
It all works out : )
SilverMakkari · 36-40, M
@Alison now that is one solution I myself cannot me attain to. happy for you though
SW-User
This post is so dramatic. Should have made a nice post
SilverMakkari · 36-40, M
@SW-User ever heard on something called "venting?"
SW-User
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Bad women usually are more confident. They don't gaf about societal rules or standards.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
What exactly is a "bad woman"?

One who won't talk sweetly?
One who has a mind of her own?

I am surprised you get hit on at all, you seem whiney.

 
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