Why is it always the problem women/drama queens that are never afraid to make the first move?

Yeah, I think people who are… predatory inherently have issues. It’s important to cut those people loose right away the second you notice the red flag rather than indulge it before it gets even worse.

I do wonder what you mean by drama though? Can you give a couple examples of theatrics that you find inappropriate?

Naturally, only you would be able to answer this for yourself, so it’s more of a rhetorical question, but I’d be asking myself what am I doing that comes off as inaccessible to healthy, grounded people? (Why are the healthy people not hitting on me). Stuff to do with body language, how we spend our time, our own self-esteem, the kind of people we hang out with etc.