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MrMonnyPenny · 22-25, M
If you’re crushing on someone that means you’ve assumed some sort of idealised character for that person and a narrative/fantasy for how your life together will be. But reality is chaotic and it will never follow exactly what you want, and that person will never live up to your mental image of them.
So do away with fantasies and live day to day with information that you’ve got. Go out and meet other people eventually you’ll find someone more compatible.
So do away with fantasies and live day to day with information that you’ve got. Go out and meet other people eventually you’ll find someone more compatible.