When you date someone...

Do you consciously (or subconsciously) think about what you offer, or "bring to the table "?
Or do you just go in hoping you will simply click/have fun?
I think I feel I dont bring that much to the table, so I get super nervous, and feel who would want someone with the anxiety I have?😢🌺💗

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ravenwind43 · 51-55, F

The last date I had I ended up fumbling unfortunately. If I attempt it again I will focus on how we connect on various levels and have a good time. A date is a date and I don't want to approach it with to serious thoughts of future.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@ravenwind43 Exactly, just be in the NOW only . I really want to implement this. Its all we have technically, isnt it?!

ravenwind43 · 51-55, F

@Coralmist it's not easy to be that way though LOL. I tend to be an overthinker

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@ravenwind43 SAME ughh i hate it. And yet the future does not actually exist. And all the what ifs are little movies in our head, thats it. Thats what an author Byron Katie called them. Movies, and NOT REAL.

ravenwind43 · 51-55, F

@Coralmist That's an interesting idea ..hmmm:)