When you date someone...

Do you consciously (or subconsciously) think about what you offer, or "bring to the table "?
Or do you just go in hoping you will simply click/have fun?
I think I feel I dont bring that much to the table, so I get super nervous, and feel who would want someone with the anxiety I have?😢🌺💗

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Ontheroad · M

I haven't dated in a long while but when I did, I went in thinking of having fun and let it go at that. Having expectations other than that is setting oneself up for disappointment.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Ontheroad Thats true, drop any future thoughts about myself or them. What i mean too is do you already feel confident that you can offer this person something they like, short or long term. I often feel just my kindness isnt enough to really offer a relationship overall, so I feel less than them and not even date😞

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