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So why is it so hard for some guys to talk?

I met a guy over the summer. We had a nice first date. I thought there was potential there. But since then nothing. Instead, he just sends me a random text about once a week with random questions, like "what's better motivation or discipline"? to which I answer and he disappears for the rest of the week.

I try to have a conversation with him and it's just one word answers. He doesn't say anything about himself and it's frustrating. Here's an example? Me: How was your weekend? Him: Good. Me: What did you do? Him: Went places. Me: Where did you go? Him: My friend's.
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He sounds boring. He texts you to keep you on a string incase something better doesn’t come along. He’s a pig.
blindbob · 41-45
@BrokenAbyss i'm not into him. communication is an important part of attraction for me. i'm just more curious about why so many young men struggle with communication. what i see a lot is a guys who just talk about themselves the whole time or the other extreme, guys who don't say anything.
calicuz · 51-55, M
@blindbob

How old are these guys you talk to? They sound like boys in men's bodies.
blindbob · 41-45
@calicuz 30s.