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So why is it so hard for some guys to talk?

I met a guy over the summer. We had a nice first date. I thought there was potential there. But since then nothing. Instead, he just sends me a random text about once a week with random questions, like "what's better motivation or discipline"? to which I answer and he disappears for the rest of the week.

I try to have a conversation with him and it's just one word answers. He doesn't say anything about himself and it's frustrating. Here's an example? Me: How was your weekend? Him: Good. Me: What did you do? Him: Went places. Me: Where did you go? Him: My friend's.
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Sweetpoison · 36-40, F
He is not interested. Orherwise he would make the effort
blindbob · 41-45
@Sweetpoison this isn't an "is he into me" question. believe it or not, poor communication makes someone less attractive to me. i'm more so asking why do so many guys struggle with communication because i've seen this a lot. there was actually a psychologist who wrote an article saying one of the reasons why young men are so lonely is because they're not meeting dating standards, one of those standards is being a good communicator.
Sweetpoison · 36-40, F
@blindbob i was just trying to say that maybe he is not bad at communicating but just not interested.
blindbob · 41-45
@Sweetpoison ok. well he is just an example of something that i've seen a lot with young men.
Sweetpoison · 36-40, F
@blindbob sorry for this.