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Instant Deal Breaker?

So, you are on a first date 馃檪 You have been looking forward to it! The individual seems promising. The conversation is flowing .. so is the wine. Then, out of the blue, they mention something casually that stops you in your tract. What is it?

For me it's primarily cheating.
tallpowerhouseblonde31-35, F
They are a smoker or use drugs.These are deal breakers for me.Cheating isn't.I have been dating the married CEO from work since last November.
SW-User
That they are an alcoholic or a drug addict.
dontbekoi36-40, F
@SW-User Yeah, sometimes that's hard to spot. Especially if they are excuse makers. My brother in law is like that.
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@dontbekoi I had someone once on a first date admit it to me. Came right out and said I've drank heavily every day for the past 3 years, but I am not an alcoholic I can stop at any time.
Jeephikelove46-50, F
@SW-User that鈥檚 a huge one
CrazyMusicLover31-35
Calling their ex foul names with a lot of hate.
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AntisocialTroll56-60, F
Told me he has friends who go hare coursing.
dontbekoi36-40, F
@Iwillwait Hare coursing is the pursuit of hares with greyhounds and other sighthounds, which chase the hare by sight, not by scent.
AntisocialTroll56-60, F
@dontbekoi I think hare coursing is way worse than dog racing, at least the dogs at a race track are trying to catch a mechanical hare/rabbit not a real one.

@Iwillwait Hare coursing is when dogs are trained to chase hares, catch them and then rip them to bits, it's vile barbaric practise that is now outlawed in the UK but some evil sods still do it anyway.
dontbekoi36-40, F
@AntisocialTroll We had a dog tract two towns away from me that was not very profitable. They didn't have the funds for a mechanical rabbit. They closed after 20 or so years (and many protests). I got to adopt one of of the dogs. She died of cancer from all of the steroids 鈽癸笍
SunshineGirl36-40, F
An unhealthy interest in conspiracy theory, astrology or alternative medicine 馃ズ
dontbekoi36-40, F
@SunshineGirl Alternative medicine like chiropractor or acupuncture?
SunshineGirl36-40, F
@dontbekoi Homeopathy is mainly what I had in mind.

I've also got a bit of a downer on water divining.
dontbekoi36-40, F
@SunshineGirl Gotcha 馃槈
OntheroadM
They voted for the MAGA guy and support the crap that has come since.
dontbekoi36-40, F
@Ontheroad Baseless conspiracy theories are on my list too. I don't care what you look like but I need someone with a semi working brain. Holocaust deniers? - F off. 馃槀
Derogatory comments
dontbekoi36-40, F
@V00doo Oh, me too.
assemblingaknob26-30, F
That they're married but working on separating. Lol.
dontbekoi36-40, F
@assemblingaknob Ding Ding Ding!
Rokasu36-40, M
I ain't dating no basic silver league b.
Narcissistic traits.
SW-User
How does cheating factor into a first date?

In answer to your question I think gum chewing or some overly strong scent would kill it for me.
dontbekoi36-40, F
@SW-User

Did I mention there was wine involved? ... and it was with his room mates girlfriend. 馃槼
DunningKruger61-69, M
"Sex is so overrated, don't you think? I'll be happy if no one ever touches me again in my life."
@DunningKruger thats my dream partner. another non sexual soul.
DunningKruger61-69, M
@nonsensiclesnail Well, cool. I'm glad I won't be keeping her from finding you.
She get's jealous of another girl after six weeks or less. Sorry, but that just demonstrates low value in my eyes.
hunkalove61-69, M
She thinks Melania Trump has great shoes.
assemblingaknob26-30, F
@hunkalove But she does have great shoes
Jackaloftheazuresand26-30, M
the fact that the wine is flowing
Slade56-60, M
Chewing with mouth open, ultra wokeness, someone who can't enjoy "wrong"
ChipmunkErnie70-79, M
They're a MAGA cultist.
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