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I think there might actually be something wrong with this generation...

I met two guys we had what I thought was a really lovely time.
The first guy sat opposite me and tried to be respectful of me until I encouraged him to sit closer to me.
I tried to flirt a little by comparing our muscles and getting a feel of his arms and leg lol.
He handled it well, not too confident but not to shy.
He even tried to squeeze and tickle my knee which was good.
He didn't kiss me at the end of the night. But he did say that dating a taurean isnt good since they're messed up...
So I wasn't really sure about that.

He's been texting me on and off over the past two weeks but not initiated for us to meet up.
He's more texted to see what I'm up to only to tell. E he's out with friends...

The second guy he and I hit it off Almost immediately I noticed him checking me out as I was checking him out...
I could feel there was a lot of sexual chemistry between us.
We went to the pub after and had so e food and a few drinks.
We were laughing and flirting the whole time.
At the end he walked me to the station and told me to kiss him on the cheek after I told him I don't kiss on the first date, he tried to sneak a kiss but I dodged it so he squeezed my butt instead.

On the way back we texted back and forth.
He got covid last week so spent the week in isolation, our Friday date got cancelled. We face timed stuff things got a little hot under the collar.
So I told him we needed to slow things a little as he was coming on a little strong with the physical.

I do like him but i want to get to know him a little better.
Anyways since although he texts daily, he's not really keeping the flow of things going as strong...

I have a feeling that both these guys aren't as keen on me as I am on them but I don't quite understand what's going on now.

There both doing the same thing....
Dangling me!

Hmmm... 🤔
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4meAndyou · F
Don't even bother with the first guy. Without chemistry you will not be able to have a good sexual relationship.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou I dunno if it's a language barrier with him..
He's from Luxembourg... He often speaks French since he can't find the English words.
I don't know what's going on with him...
I much prefer when a person invites me out but all this last minute.com business is not cool.
I don't just hang or drop everything for him.
Or allow him to dangle things in front of me...
4meAndyou · F
@Mellowgirl [media=https://youtu.be/VkfChtISjDA]
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou we never kissed lol
4meAndyou · F
@Mellowgirl I sent that video because I wanted to tell you that you could look into his eyes and tell if he has chemistry with you, even without the same language... but then I remembered this song...🤭
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou oh lool. I don't really know what to say anymore.
There can be chemistry with a guy but then they limit the conversation or play these games.
So my thing is this. If its not what they're looking for move on. And I'm taking a leaf out of my own book.

Theyre not giving me anything to feed off so I'm gonna have to move on.
4meAndyou · F
@Mellowgirl Good...I didn't like what he said about you being a Taurus.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou I'm a capricorn he's a taurus!
4meAndyou · F
@Mellowgirl Oh. Hard to understand from what he said. Like you say, definite language barrier. But no girl on a date should be forced to try to create a little physical closeness. You should be fighting them off...(pretend you are shy! 🤣🤣🤣)
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou I think all this me too stuff has made people weird!
Also it was a first date!