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I think there might actually be something wrong with this generation...

I met two guys we had what I thought was a really lovely time.
The first guy sat opposite me and tried to be respectful of me until I encouraged him to sit closer to me.
I tried to flirt a little by comparing our muscles and getting a feel of his arms and leg lol.
He handled it well, not too confident but not to shy.
He even tried to squeeze and tickle my knee which was good.
He didn't kiss me at the end of the night. But he did say that dating a taurean isnt good since they're messed up...
So I wasn't really sure about that.

He's been texting me on and off over the past two weeks but not initiated for us to meet up.
He's more texted to see what I'm up to only to tell. E he's out with friends...

The second guy he and I hit it off Almost immediately I noticed him checking me out as I was checking him out...
I could feel there was a lot of sexual chemistry between us.
We went to the pub after and had so e food and a few drinks.
We were laughing and flirting the whole time.
At the end he walked me to the station and told me to kiss him on the cheek after I told him I don't kiss on the first date, he tried to sneak a kiss but I dodged it so he squeezed my butt instead.

On the way back we texted back and forth.
He got covid last week so spent the week in isolation, our Friday date got cancelled. We face timed stuff things got a little hot under the collar.
So I told him we needed to slow things a little as he was coming on a little strong with the physical.

I do like him but i want to get to know him a little better.
Anyways since although he texts daily, he's not really keeping the flow of things going as strong...

I have a feeling that both these guys aren't as keen on me as I am on them but I don't quite understand what's going on now.

There both doing the same thing....
Dangling me!

Hmmm... 🤔
4meAndyou · F
Don't even bother with the first guy. Without chemistry you will not be able to have a good sexual relationship.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou I'm a capricorn he's a taurus!
4meAndyou · F
@Mellowgirl Oh. Hard to understand from what he said. Like you say, definite language barrier. But no girl on a date should be forced to try to create a little physical closeness. You should be fighting them off...(pretend you are shy! 🤣🤣🤣)
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou I think all this me too stuff has made people weird!
Also it was a first date!
gdon39 · 46-50, M
Don’t waste to much time. First guy is a no go. Second guy may just be a “Oh I did her” smart ass being coolieo

I don’t think either one is worth your time.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@gdon39
So the taurus guy is wasting my time.
He text me to find out what I was doing, whether I wanted to meet only to tell me, he is in the café and doesn't want to travel but will when the weathers cooler...
He promises...
2x he's done this so I'm not bothering anymore
gdon39 · 46-50, M
@Mellowgirl they aren’t worth your time. Too bad bc it sounded like you may have been into them
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Personally, I think people who have prejudices against others according to their birth sign are messed up and a waste of time. They're no different from religious fanatics and I hate dealing with those. As if there were not enough stupid reasons to be prejudiced against someone, someone had to invent another one to spread hate and stupidity.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover huh...
He said our star signs are meant to be compatible
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Mellowgirl Yes but it's also a form of prejudice not based on anything reasonable. So in this case it's not hate but if you were of other sign he would what? Just dump you because your star sign tells him so?
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover no I have no idea why you say this... Or think this either....
Northwest · M
OK, so you have one guy who make decisions based on astrology, a made up field, based on nothing other than imagination. You have another guy who seems to be interested in instant gratification.

What do you want?
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Northwest Well whether I stick around with this guys... I control that.
Whether I keep meeting people that fit into these kind of categories no I can't control it. Since people know how to reel others in these days!
Northwest · M
@Mellowgirl I think you know how to control the narrative ;-) get working on a checklist ;-)
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Northwest no idea!
This is why I avoid dating at all costs. People just annoys me to no end
Mindful · 56-60, F
What is a Taurean?
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Just keep getting out there and you will find someone eventually

 
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