Why do people ghost? I had 2 separate dates with 2 guys in the last while, we had texted for a...

SW-User

Immaturity, not knowing how to proceed with you, finding someone else, avoiding conflict.
Silence speaks for itself, they simply don't want you in their life.
But aren't honest.

reubles · 41-45, M

They're cowards

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

The nature of online dating is meeting strangers and finding out very quickly that you might not be a good match. In cases like that it would be polite and proper to tell the person that you aren’t interested but do you really owe them that? It’s easier to ghost than be polite. Most people move on with life and are not offended.

SW-User

They are cowards and are selfish

BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M

Because we're either too embarrased, scared of confrontation or worried about hurting others to do the proper thing.

SW-User

Rudeness can be subjective.

You might think leaving without saying anything is rude, somebody else might find telling you in your face to be way more rude

BeefySenpie · M

Because they don't have the courage to say I'm not interested but good luck

caccoon · 36-40

I ghost because I used to tell people, but they take it really badly and I won't deal with that bullshit haha

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Just easier and think it hurts less.

GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M

🤷‍♂️ it's what people do

Tres13 · 51-55, M

If u don’t do it ,Ghost

Souls

Ghosting allows people to avoid conflict and not have to deal with the repercussions of their decision or it could be a form of reverse psychology

FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M

Maybe their schedule is crazy and got called into work AGAIN. 🏃‍♂️☎️

HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M

Either its Halloween or they died

Glassysky · 22-25, M

You must be not hot enough

SkeetSkeet · 100+, F

Idk it depends some people act unhinged and I've had others be thankful. So if I get an uncomfortable vibe with them or we've only been talking a day or two then idgaf