Is this normal for dating?

So, there was this girl who went on a date with a guy. She bought her own food and gave him money for gas.

He asked her to come to his house for sex. She refused. He got angry and said she wasted his time. She eventually had to walk home.

I know that most men want 50/50 and consider women who don't are selflesh gold diggers but she paid for his gas and bought her own food, so how is she a gold digger or entitled?

What do you guys think?

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Mindfulness

If you go on a date the guy pays and expects nothing in return.
It may be sexist but I'm old fashioned... well I'm old.

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ShadowWolf · 31-35, M

@Mindfulness Look at the original post. The guy expected sex.

Mindfulness

@ShadowWolf fair point, totally unacceptable behaviour.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@Mindfulness That is right.

ShadowWolf · 31-35, M

Considering it wasn't a "date" seeing as he didn't pay for her (rule #1 guy pays on first date, even if the girl offers to pay her half (which is a good sign)), and he expected sex on a first date, he is fully in the wrong. Also who the hell asks for gas money from a girl on the first date? If anytime?(Unless its a long road trip within the bounds of a relationship.)

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

She is a mug . Its a first date he should do the decent thing and be a gentleman . You certainly dont expect sex on a first date and he should have paid not her . She got off lightly he was obviously a dick and only after one thing learn from the mistake .

Thetinydog · 26-30, F

@Rhode57 for some reason the black community sees black women as the bottom of the barrel. It's strange because it's like they hate black women, hate seeing black women generally happy and having friends/ family but they want black women to be tolerate and "strong" even if it means being abused or exploited.

Its just terrible and selfish. They'd never expect white women to be strong and take the bullet- constantly.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@Thetinydog He was selfish. He should have been lucky he was on a date with her. Always see how things go

Northwest · M

I think this "girl" should pick a classier dating pool.

Thetinydog · 26-30, F

@Northwest https://youtu.be/Ql19u5-bMYc

I just hope he gives her that gas money back. This is outrageous. Hopefully she never speaks to him again. I hope this guy is a incel

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

Doesn't sound like there will be a second date

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@smileylovesgaming Agreed with that as well. No second date of that idiot guy

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@bhatjc that guy only had one thing on his mind. Good for her for saying no

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@smileylovesgaming That is true he did. And he choke it . She was right to say no

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

I think we suck too often because it seems like all we really want out of women is sex.

I mean I'm not above wanting that TOO but Lilith fucking christ, Almighty ma'am like I want so much more.

hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M

Why was she so desperate for a date that she paid for his gas? If he can't afford the gas or to pay for the meal.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

That guy was idiot. Let woman be woman. Always go for a second date.

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