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4meAndyou · F
🤔🤔🤔 Hmm. (2nd ex). Could be when he threatened to put a hit on me. Might be when he broke into our home during the divorce with a crowbar and stole most of the appliances that the court awarded to me...(couldn't even keep my son's milk cold without the fridge). Might be when he broke in to the house again and left gasoline cans in the living room and tampered with the fuse box.
Might be when he felt he had to rub his new girlfriend in my face...but most definitely when he insisted he had to have a weekend visit with my son right after he had facial surgery, and brought him home with his face hanging wide open and all the stitches gone.
Could be when he couldn't manage $70 a week for child support while working a great job, and ended up owing more than $10,000 in child support arrears.
Could be when he had one of his friends "visit" me where I worked, at the Homeless Shelter, with a power bow in hand, claiming to be lost and needing to use the phone.
Might be when he felt he had to rub his new girlfriend in my face...but most definitely when he insisted he had to have a weekend visit with my son right after he had facial surgery, and brought him home with his face hanging wide open and all the stitches gone.
Could be when he couldn't manage $70 a week for child support while working a great job, and ended up owing more than $10,000 in child support arrears.
Could be when he had one of his friends "visit" me where I worked, at the Homeless Shelter, with a power bow in hand, claiming to be lost and needing to use the phone.

SW-User
@4meAndyou Ohmyfreaking dog. How horrible for you. Even though I've been to Hell and back with my ex, everyone's story is different and I'm left in awe every time at the things we've survived.
4meAndyou · F
@SW-User I didn't mention the kidnapping...because it only lasted for about 6 hours...but he took my son for the very first visit after I filed for divorce and then called me from the bar where he was drinking with my baby son in his arms, and told me I would never see him again.
I felt as though he cut the heart out of my chest. I've never been so terrified in my life.
I felt as though he cut the heart out of my chest. I've never been so terrified in my life.
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4meAndyou · F
@SW-User I don't think we are doing children a favor, sometimes, assigning them their parents. You are right.




