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When you meet someone in person & they’re attracted to you, do you think that they are attracted to your looks, personality, or both?

Both I think, but I feel like my personality shines more.
Lilymoon · 46-50, F
I think it's looks at first ... but then I secretly hope it's my personality that attracts them. 🤪
LadyJ · 41-45, F
Looks first... then my exquisite personality 🤪🤣
LadyJ · 41-45, F
[@1141547,Lilymoon] 🤣🤣 innit! 🥂🥂
Lilymoon · 46-50, F
[@935348,NightsWatch] 😁 🤗
LadyJ · 41-45, F
[@935348,NightsWatch] 🤗😊
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
Both.My long legs and big breasts attract men like magnets and combined with my personality seals the deal.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
[@1613,tallpowerhouseblonde] Awesome
has to be personality
JesseInTX · 46-50, M
[@917533,saragoodtimes] you are the total package. Beauty, brains, personality, fun and a brilliant chef 😘
[@543602,JesseInTX] love you too Sweets
JesseInTX · 46-50, M
[@917533,saragoodtimes] ❤️😘❤️
TexChik · F
Initially all attraction starts with looks usually. Personality is a close second but if the looks fail the personality seems to be less important. BUT... If you have boobs, they seem to mask any appearance flaws...just ask my hubby 😉
Nanori · 26-30, F
Def my pussy
Degbeme · 61-69, M
Fariss11 · 26-30, F
[@72117,Degbeme] not true at all.. ur living on hede as well..shouldnt prevent u from exploring
Degbeme · 61-69, M
[@1226970,Fariss11] hede? 🤔
Fariss11 · 26-30, F
[@72117,Degbeme] sorry here* 😂😂typo
chasingWednesday · 36-40, M
I’m not sure, it doesn’t happen too often
chasingWednesday · 36-40, M
[@1226970,Fariss11] I don’t work with many people anymore. I’ve gotten together with a few coworkers before but only after we got to know each other so I guess it was personality
Fariss11 · 26-30, F
[@1224222,chasingWednesday] well i like ur petsonality and look )
chasingWednesday · 36-40, M
[@1226970,Fariss11] you flatter me 😊
not looks for sure, but personality
marsbar · F
[@1077581,paperlace] I think personality is more important.
I assume both as well. I don't think my looks are that great. It might draw someone in or cause them to look at me more closely, but it's not going to be enough for them really be attracted to me. People get more interested in me when they get to know me. :)
marsbar · F
[@1163114,SageTheProblemChild] Hence the importance of getting to know someone.
GunFinger · 41-45, F
Must be the personality.
mrlopez · 26-30, M
My 34inch gut
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
I think we should be attracted to inner beauty than physical beauty.😇

Nothing against those who value physical beauty more.🙂

I simply believe inner beauty lasts forever.😇
Iamonfire666 · 31-35, F
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
Looks tend to be more of an initial attraction thing, what makes someone actually decide to approach you. After that, it's more about personality and less about looks.
I think people are attracted to whatever they think they can get out of me. Historically, I've attracted a lot of scammers, hackers and criminal types.
Fariss11 · 26-30, F
Both. But im usually not wearing makeup at all avaully and my hair is usally braided and i have a head band so personality
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
No woman has ever been interested in me.

You have a nice, fun personality, [i]and[/i] you look good.
marsbar · F
[@68716,JoyfulSilence] Thank you 🤗
Viper · M
They're more attracted to my brain because my looks and personally suck!
marsbar · F
[@800884,Viper] Don’t say that!
Shutterbug · 51-55, M
Usually its entry into the batcave….
marsbar · F
[@377577,Shutterbug] Your love cave 😏
Shutterbug · 51-55, M
[@73351,marsbar] lets try to keep this clean 🙄
marsbar · F
[@377577,Shutterbug] You’re so boring Batman. 😤🙄
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Definitely not my looks so it must be my charming personality
RoxClymer · 36-40, M
depends on how much of you they know berfore-hand
marsbar · F
[@575075,RoxClymer] True
MeNoLoveYouLongTime · 18-21, F
I think my personality and look at the same time, if that makes sense.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
hmmmm I can't remember that feeling :P
marsbar · F
[@339269,JimboSaturn] Aww. Lol
DropTopDig · M
Personality.. I'm not handsome or anything.
Credit score. ;-) (Jo Koy bit)
marsbar · F
[@710445,Stillwaiting] Lol
I think they are batshit crazy.
marsbar · F
[@377093,BiasForAction] Lol
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
I think they are drunk
marsbar · F
[@488176,LunarOrbit] Lol
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
Hopefully, both!

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