When you meet someone in person & they’re attracted to you, do you think that they are attracted to your looks, personality, or both?
Both I think, but I feel like my personality shines more.
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VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@HootyTheNightOwl funnily enough I saw a career advisor and all he wanted was to get me working without thinking about what I could do. I saw one though that wasn't at a job centre and their program was top class.
Yeah I know what you mean.
Yeah that's shit it was abolished.
Oh wow yeah it should be kept professional. It's probably a good thing he left but you could do with seeing another one tbh.
Seems like he was crossing the professional line. Doesn't sound like he hid the flirting. Were you interested?
I can understand you're perspective. Once it's on your records it's on your records. Social services are a nightmare too.
Yeah I know what you mean.
Yeah that's shit it was abolished.
Oh wow yeah it should be kept professional. It's probably a good thing he left but you could do with seeing another one tbh.
Seems like he was crossing the professional line. Doesn't sound like he hid the flirting. Were you interested?
I can understand you're perspective. Once it's on your records it's on your records. Social services are a nightmare too.
@VirginMatchmaker That's been my biggest problem. I'm like:-
"I want to work, but I need you to help me to find something I can do".
Their response:-
"You can do anything you want, just pick something". Yeah, that's not how life works.
No, I wasn't interested in him as anything other than someone to flirt with. I was owned at the time (my former Sire knew about it and encouraged me to continue with it because it was helping with my confidence). I wouldn't have left my former Sire for him. That's not me... I am a one man girl - once I bond with a guy, it's difficult for me to dethatch from him.
The same is true with my man now. I may talk with other guys and laugh and joke with them... but I'm unable to see them as more than friends - even if I thought that there could be the potential for more than friendship. I still belong to my man at the end of the day, and it's always him that I will return to.
I gave up with that after I was abandoned because it's not something that's a good fit for my man and I now.
Even if I were interested in him, he was a practicing Muslim - and I knew that would have caused issues in my racist family (they can't handle the fact that I am Catholic and I had to lapse) and that I knew he'd have had to use the darker side of his degree to get out of. It wasn't fair to even contemplate anything more than a bit of fun between two people. It had to end there... but I was getting hooked on the heady feeling of a flirting session. I'm guessing that he did it because he knew that he was changing anyway and decided to have a bit of fun before he left.
He's not the only one I've been involved with with a psych degree, so I know well about the darker side of the degree and learned a few tricks from. Now, I prefer to have no involvement with people who hold psychology degrees, given how much a dom hiding a psych minor degree screwed me up.
"I want to work, but I need you to help me to find something I can do".
Their response:-
"You can do anything you want, just pick something". Yeah, that's not how life works.
No, I wasn't interested in him as anything other than someone to flirt with. I was owned at the time (my former Sire knew about it and encouraged me to continue with it because it was helping with my confidence). I wouldn't have left my former Sire for him. That's not me... I am a one man girl - once I bond with a guy, it's difficult for me to dethatch from him.
The same is true with my man now. I may talk with other guys and laugh and joke with them... but I'm unable to see them as more than friends - even if I thought that there could be the potential for more than friendship. I still belong to my man at the end of the day, and it's always him that I will return to.
I gave up with that after I was abandoned because it's not something that's a good fit for my man and I now.
Even if I were interested in him, he was a practicing Muslim - and I knew that would have caused issues in my racist family (they can't handle the fact that I am Catholic and I had to lapse) and that I knew he'd have had to use the darker side of his degree to get out of. It wasn't fair to even contemplate anything more than a bit of fun between two people. It had to end there... but I was getting hooked on the heady feeling of a flirting session. I'm guessing that he did it because he knew that he was changing anyway and decided to have a bit of fun before he left.
He's not the only one I've been involved with with a psych degree, so I know well about the darker side of the degree and learned a few tricks from. Now, I prefer to have no involvement with people who hold psychology degrees, given how much a dom hiding a psych minor degree screwed me up.
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@HootyTheNightOwl For them to turn around and just say pick something is utterly ridiculous. Surely they can see your problems and have to take them into account.
Being a one man girl is the best way to be. It's interesting he was flirty with you, but at least he's not there to screw you up.
Religion gets in the way of alot of things. I wish there wasn't any religion as then there'd be fewer wars in this world.
Being a one man girl is the best way to be. It's interesting he was flirty with you, but at least he's not there to screw you up.
Religion gets in the way of alot of things. I wish there wasn't any religion as then there'd be fewer wars in this world.
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@nightjourney I don’t work with many people anymore. I’ve gotten together with a few coworkers before but only after we got to know each other so I guess it was personality
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@nightjourney you flatter me 😊
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@Shutterbug Your love cave 😏
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@SW-User You must be looking for a sugar mama then. 🤔
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