Why don't people like too nice people (honest answers)? I don't get it. I'm a very nice kind...

'Nice' people represent the backbone of any society! Those other types - 'gangstas', I think some call them - are pathetic, little ingrates - completely uneducated and unwashed with the i.q of a boiled grape.

quitwhendone · M

That's crazy. I love nice, kind people. I hate rude, ill-mannered people. There is NOTHING wrong with being nice, kind, and well mannered. Don't ever lower your standards for yourself because of other people. Set the bar high.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

Being too nice isn't bad. It's horrible.

If I were to put it in simple words then it means you're just a meat to a wolf.

I've been nice to people and ended up without nothing. It's not worth being nice whatsoever. Just be yourself and be nice to people who deserve it. Not everybody deserves the nice people in life.

SW-User

To hell with those people. Just be you! Sounds like they are jealous.

midnightsun · 26-30, M

Too nice is a facade.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

Could you clarify this?

He said let people do all the work in chosing when we have outings and I'm being lazy. I leave things unsolved and I always butt into conversations to be nice.

How is this being nice?

xixgun · M

Because it makes them realize what shits they are

Magenta · F

It doesn't seem genuine and comes across as a bit of a mask or for show. Human beings are multi faceted and that includes many emotions and behaviors.

texasdaddydom · 56-60, M

some people believe it is insincere. as a society, we value intelligence and wit which is often biting more so. genuine kindness is severely underrated to me. oh also people misidentify being a pushover or floor mat as being "nice" and those are not good qualities.

SW-User

Because it's fake

SW-User

What you explained goes way beyond simply being nice or kind. If you have to TRY to be nice, it is a put on and false. Peeps who do this seem a bit desperate and have a deep need to be liked by others.