Why don't people like too nice people (honest answers)?

I don't get it. I'm a very nice kind and too nice person and my best friend, close friends and family don't like it. I though you're suppose to be nice. I try so hard to be kind, nice and very nice but some people are difficult to please. My best friend told me I'm trying way too hard and I'm being fake and stop. She told me I'm so boring that it makes her wanna rip her hair off. How am I boring? I'm just being nice. My dad hates me for being too nice and slapped me with reality. He said let people do all the work in chosing when we have outings and I'm being lazy. I leave things unsolved and I always butt into conversations to be nice.
I had a date but I wasn't ask for a second one.

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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

Being too nice isn't bad. It's horrible.

If I were to put it in simple words then it means you're just a meat to a wolf.

I've been nice to people and ended up without nothing. It's not worth being nice whatsoever. Just be yourself and be nice to people who deserve it. Not everybody deserves the nice people in life.

PoppyLoveLala · F

@Beatbox34 so you want me to be mean?

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@PoppyLoveLala I never told you to be mean. What I'm telling is be smart. Do not reveal the nice part of you to everyone.

Observe a person's behavior before letting him/her know how you are. You might not believe but the more you observe, the more you gain insight of his/her behavior. Habits will never change and a person will always show their colors regardless of how they choose to conceal it

xixgun · M

Be nice, but don’t be a doormat @PoppyLoveLala

PoppyLoveLala · F

@xixgun Okay. My best friend isn't as nice as me and she gets respected a lot more.

xixgun · M

@PoppyLoveLala I’m nice but the instant I stand up for myself or refuse to be shit on, then I become “an asshole”.
People love nice people as long as they feel they can use them. When they refuse to be crapped on all the sudden they act like you had some kind of mental breakdown. “What is wrong with you?!”