Would you date a guy who took off on you and his friends a year ago and comes back?

He apologized and had good reasons to do so. But something just isn't sitting right. I mean why come back after being gone a year. I know he went on a journey of self discovery but still just don't know if he's not telling me something. We've been friends for a long time now and this is our only hurdle we've ever had.

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Be careful. See this shit all the time in the movies. Dude comes back after being gone for a year. Turns out he's possessed by evil alien force.

Montanaman · M

Walkaway Joe.😔

coffeedimplez · 26-30, F

Wow this sounds very similar to my current dilemma. I'd said keep your eyes open and take it nice and easy. That's what I'm trying to do.

Silentangel · 31-35, F

@coffeedimplez yeah me too, he's respecting that I want to take it slow at least. We've never had problems before etc who knows I'm still being careful ^^

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Run@Silentangel!!!

Silentangel · 31-35, F

@SW-User trying to. I'm hoping we can be just friends

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Okay. Hope it works out that way@Silentangel.

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bijouxbroussard · F

I might remain his friend, but I’d get no closer than that. A romantic relationship would require a different kind of intimacy and trust than a platonic friendship (for me). Someone who could just disappear without a word is clearly not capable of that.

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Silentangel · 31-35, F

@bijouxbroussard 😭 I know it isn't >< still being careful. He knows I don't want to rush at least and is respecting that.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Silentangel That’s something at least. Maybe his time away has helped him get more settled.

Silentangel · 31-35, F

@bijouxbroussard maybe, he's doing a lot better now and got himself into the RAF etc so much change in him but good change though

RoxClymer · 41-45, M

he'd get left behind, his time came and went

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