Would you date a guy who took off on you and his friends a year ago and comes back?

He apologized and had good reasons to do so. But something just isn't sitting right. I mean why come back after being gone a year. I know he went on a journey of self discovery but still just don't know if he's not telling me something. We've been friends for a long time now and this is our only hurdle we've ever had.

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bijouxbroussard · F

I might remain his friend, but I’d get no closer than that. A romantic relationship would require a different kind of intimacy and trust than a platonic friendship (for [b]me[/b]). Someone who could just disappear without a word is clearly not capable of that.

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@bijouxbroussard I mean he didn't leave without saying anything he just said he needed to go etc and he's got better from it etc. Most confusing thing ever. 🤦

bijouxbroussard · F

@Silentangel Ah, understood. A year’s absence would still be easier for me to manage with a platonic friend. But that’s just me.

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@bijouxbroussard what's worse though is he's pulled every heart string and already has me wrapped round his finger ><

bijouxbroussard · F

@Silentangel Not a good thing at all.

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@bijouxbroussard 😭 I know it isn't >< still being careful. He knows I don't want to rush at least and is respecting that.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Silentangel That’s something at least. Maybe his time away has helped him get more settled.

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@bijouxbroussard maybe, he's doing a lot better now and got himself into the RAF etc so much change in him but good change though