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Can you try to explain this for me please?

A woman I know has met a guy through a dating site, however, she threw a tantrum when she learned that he'd met other women from the site (before she'd spoken to him). Apparently he has 'completely broken her trust'. She will not shut the hell up about it (although she's been told to, on more than one occasion). She's not my friend, but part of my social group due to her knowing friends of mine, so avoiding hearing it is difficult at times.
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
Some people are like that, for various reasons. Some are justifiable, suçh as prior infidelities, or wierd head games,thers are just a result of that person being to self absorbed, self pitying, having control issues, or narcissistism.
At any rate it sounds like she should spend less time dating and more time soul searching.
She seemingly has emotional baggage she needs to deal with.
Do you think she wod be willing to entertain these possibilities?
SW-User
Can you block her? Ignore her? I'm sure it will pass. Give her some advice..
I've had arguments because of this. To most, dating is playing the field. Until you have that so called "exclusive" talk. Idk though. I just can't date how many guys at once, I'd feel ... 😕 I'm no hot stuff, but I try to do that one at a time. If that makes me silly or unconfident then fine. But I just call that respect. 😐
unitX · 36-40, M
I'm talking with a woman like this now. These people cannot accept other people's pasts for some reason. Insecurity? Some people are also pious to a major extreme and simply have to find a "pure" one with no history.
Forget pure, ....

I mean it would be nice if he wasn't a complete manwhore. 😞

But, be faithful, yeah. Fidelity. Loyalty. Respect. You know.
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
Yea, i dont get it either...perhaps its a good time to talk about that killer omelet you made saturday morning
fazer1k · 56-60, M
Everyone has a past. I'm not sure what her issue is.
blindbob · 41-45
sounds like there's more to this story than you're aware of. you're a 3rd party.
Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
That is stupid
tenente · 100+, M
insecurity level 9000

 
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