A married couple in their 50s asked me to be in a 3 sum with them… should I, should I not? I was never asked in a 3 sum in a marriage so i don’t know the pros or cons in this situation lol. Advise please!?
No harm in trying. Ask about boundaries and state your boundaries. Just know when the time has come to walk away. Do not feel obligated to continue month after month. How to walk away without guilt? Simply say "This was fun and now I think it has run it's course." Leave on good terms.
The cons are that there is likely to be jealousy. That will especially happen if you "click" more with one or the other of them. Are you friends with this couple? If so I would be really hesitant to accept this invitation because of how it might end up messing stuff up emotionally between them. If they are just casual acquaintances, I suppose it's their lookout.
The pro is that three-way sex is great, but it sounds like you already know that!
Its the same as with a regular couple what you have to decide is if your attracted to them enough to want to join them. If you like older people then you might enjoy it. Let us know how it goes ok
it kinda seems to me like there's a whole slew of problems in that minefield. you're enough younger than them that any sort of normal social interaction isn't really going to work well - you're just too different, basically a generation apart. it kinda seems like they're basically turning you into a living sex toy. which might be fine with you and you're totally into that. to me it sounds like there's a whole lot to go wrong and very little that can be a benefit for/to you.
@dirge I agree, there’s nothing wrong with their age I was a bit taken back that they asked me and not someone or their peer but you know to each their own and no judgement, and thank you!!
Before jumping into bed with them, jump into a lengthy conversation. Good communication about expectations of all and each others boundaries is crucial. Plan the conversation on a night where play will not happen. If you all decide to play later, it is done so with fully informed consent by all.
@Karinamount i have been in 2 3somes where i knew one of the parties. They turned out to be a lot of fun. Just establish some ground rules first, like kissing the husband, wife might not like that. But they might be open to everything, if so, enjoy.
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