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Should I join the 3 sum?

A married couple in their 50s asked me to be in a 3 sum with them… should I, should I not? I was never asked in a 3 sum in a marriage so i don’t know the pros or cons in this situation lol. Advise please!?
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laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
The sex is no different with married couples or single couples that I know of.

Group sex is for all to enjoy.

There are many types of threesomes I have been in, some married and some not so much.

Have fun!


LostnFound69 · 51-55, M
@laurieluvsit if you are offering, I'm in. Love the T
Gusman · 61-69, M
No harm in trying.
Ask about boundaries and state your boundaries.
Just know when the time has come to walk away.
Do not feel obligated to continue month after month.
How to walk away without guilt?
Simply say "This was fun and now I think it has run it's course."
Leave on good terms.
The cons are that there is likely to be jealousy. That will especially happen if you "click" more with one or the other of them. Are you friends with this couple? If so I would be really hesitant to accept this invitation because of how it might end up messing stuff up emotionally between them. If they are just casual acquaintances, I suppose it's their lookout.

The pro is that three-way sex is great, but it sounds like you already know that!
Bklynbadboy12 · 36-40, M
Its the same as with a regular couple what you have to decide is if your attracted to them enough to want to join them. If you like older people then you might enjoy it. Let us know how it goes ok
it kinda seems to me like there's a whole slew of problems in that minefield. you're enough younger than them that any sort of normal social interaction isn't really going to work well - you're just too different, basically a generation apart. it kinda seems like they're basically turning you into a living sex toy. which might be fine with you and you're totally into that. to me it sounds like there's a whole lot to go wrong and very little that can be a benefit for/to you.
Karinamount · 26-30, F
@dirge I agree, there’s nothing wrong with their age I was a bit taken back that they asked me and not someone or their peer but you know to each their own and no judgement, and thank you!!
be VERY careful
such adventures, often come with un for seen complications

sometimes it is a way to make a couple break up

so be sexy with them,, for a while
play it safe. but stay open to the possibilities
be SURE of what this may mean
friendlykinkster · 56-60, M
Before jumping into bed with them, jump into a lengthy conversation. Good communication about expectations of all and each others boundaries is crucial. Plan the conversation on a night where play will not happen. If you all decide to play later, it is done so with fully informed consent by all.
in10RjFox · M
There's always a first time for everything.
You can consider it as awesum or just remain lonesum. Or make it 4 sum by bringing along a friend.
Bill67 · 56-60, M
Ask them what they like and tell them what you like more importantly tell them what you don't like
Then if it's suits you make your decision
Shytoshow · 61-69, M
I did it was very memorable just me though
urfarmboy68 · 56-60, M
Go for it! It's a great experience
Proceed with caution. Have a plan B. Tell someone where you are, and to call police if you dont call them by a certain time.
LostnFound69 · 51-55, M
I'm curious, what have you decided? Going for it?
LostnFound69 · 51-55, M
@Karinamount Interesting. Did the advice you received help or did your gut tell you to back away from that one?
Karinamount · 26-30, F
@LostnFound69 honestly both
LostnFound69 · 51-55, M
@Karinamount I'm sure it won't be the last threesome you get invited to join. Always go with your gut
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
I say go for it !
Give it a chance, might love it
melbeacher · 61-69, M
Go for it !
6XXX969 · 31-35, M
Mmmm I’d like to see that!
3Dogmatic · 46-50, M
Depends on if you are feeling good about it? No strings attached good time? Go for it.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
It is fully your decision.

If you do it, enjoy and be careful.
pdockal · 56-60, M
did you join in ?????
Amberswallows · 22-25, F
It’s fun being the third
Lostlostlost · 51-55, M
What did you decide?
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Yes, you lead
1490wayb · 56-60, M
just recently meet or have you known them long??
SW-User
It's really up to you at the end of the day
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
How safe is it?
Strike30 · M
if you want to try it you should
SomethingNew2 · 56-60, M
God yes...that would be so hot
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
Think that is for you to decide.
not if you don't know the couple,
Karinamount · 26-30, F
@jackrabbit10 yeah sure
Hatt94 · 56-60, MVIP
@jackrabbit10 good advice.
Hatt94 · 56-60, MVIP
@Karinamount i have been in 2 3somes where i knew one of the parties.
They turned out to be a lot of fun.
Just establish some ground rules first, like kissing the husband, wife might not like that.
But they might be open to everything, if so, enjoy.
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romell · 51-55, M
Join up if the terms are good for you
nowic2 · 61-69, M
If you do it, don’t allow yourself to be photographed
RohitKhanna · 41-45, M
50's - they must be both crazy for you ?
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@RohitKhanna i am mature enough, it is not like High school sweetheart emotions. But these conmections are far deeper, the supperficial ones.
RohitKhanna · 41-45, M
@Fieldmaster did you ask ?
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
Probably not a good idea.
MissBarbara · 61-69
If you mean a threesome, why not call it that? 3 sum, indeed.
Karinamount · 26-30, F
@MissBarbara it’s my post so I can write it how I want.
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Missysmithers · 36-40, F
Don't get pregnant.
heywood83 · M
Did you join them in the threesome?
as a man in your fifties you should fit right in 👏
Threesomes, foursomes and moresomes are the best!!
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
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Karinamount · 26-30, F
@Fukfacewillie lol thanks 🤷🏻‍♀

 
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