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When it comes to relationships does race/culture matter to you?

In friendships color doesn’t matter, BUT. I’m relationships it does matter to me because as a white woman, I’m attracted to white men. I just can’t see myself in an interracial relationship/marriage. I don’t wanna mess up out bloodline. It’s not racist preferring your own race. Most people prefer their own race anyways. Everyone should stick with their own kind anyways. My friend has never dated back men. I told her, “Look I’m happy for you but I’ve never seen you with a black man. What you’re too good for them and don’t want dark babies? You should not be a shame of your culture.” She just gave me a look. I’m just being honest.
People can do what they want but I don’t support interracial relationships/marriages.
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Gloomy · F
"White" may be a racialiced term but there is no such thing as a homogenous white race.

I don’t wanna mess up out bloodline. It’s not racist preferring your own race.

On the basis of who you happen to be attracted to no but on the basis of Nazi like racial purity bullshit it absolutely is racist.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@Gloomy The whole idea of races being pure is racist. Purity has nothing to do with anything.
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@Gloomy just a quick question what is wrong about having a pure bloodline?
Gloomy · F
@specman 1. There is no such thing as a pure bloodline and 2. even asking that question is fucked up because this is a fundamentally inhumane belief
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@JimboSaturn being pure in bloodline isn’t racist. You think everyone needs to marry outside of their choosing?
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Gloomy · F
@specman "mess up our bloodline" basically means the same and if you think procreating with someone of a different ethnicity messes up your bloodline you are a racist pig
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@Gloomy for what? I wasn’t talking about my bloodline! I was saying that a person that has a pure color background.
Gloomy · F
@specman
what is wrong about having a pure bloodline?

That was your question and what is a "pure color" background?
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@Gloomy I will ask what is wrong about pure bloodline? I’m asking to see what is wrong about it.



Pure color= completely black
Gloomy · F
@specman "pure" especially in this context is a historically loaded term tied to despicable crimes against humanity.
Skin color is not the same as blood(line)

It's a racist concept that doesn’t even exist because if we all go back we have different ethnic backgrounds.
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@Gloomy I don’t think having a pure bloodline is racist any way.
Gloomy · F
@specman No surprise I am used to hearing christian fascist talking points from you and fair to consider your ideology to be inhumane
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@Gloomy inhumane? Ideology?
Gloomy · F
@specman your christian fascism you keep revealing bit by bit with almost any comment and post you make. Not seeing how wrong the concept of "racial purity" is is just part of it
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@Gloomy no not really. It is required for you to not like your heritage? Some Indians are still pure are they automatically racist
CorvusBlackthorne · 100+, M
@specman
just a quick question what is wrong about having a pure bloodline?
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@CorvusBlackthorne well? There are Native Americans that have a pure bloodline! Their is nothing racist about it!
CorvusBlackthorne · 100+, M
@specman None of you humans have a pure bloodline.
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@CorvusBlackthorne There are some native Americans that have pure bloodlines. Some of those that live on the reservations.
CorvusBlackthorne · 100+, M
@specman All humans have mixed blood unless they are inbred.
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@CorvusBlackthorne Technically speaking if you're going to go that far their bloodline will be mixed Adam of Adam and eve are of responsible for all mankind,
People don't go back that far. They usually only go back maybe 4 or 5 generations maybe more but they don't go back to the beginning of time.
specman · 51-55, MVIP
@Gloomy Even though you might not be a Christian I have become or trying to become a better Christian. Instead of being mad I pray for everyone and every situation. I can love the person and still dislike the sin. That helps me cope better in a way. I’m still disagreeing with some of the things I said in the past, but I make it a point to pray for myself and the person(s) and the situation. I’m trying to be a one hundred percent Christian. We are to love everyone. I’m trying to keep my core values God, family, country. I know that what I believe and do don’t always line up with being a Christian. Please don’t think bad of all christians. All christians should love the people and dislike the sin. We should not make it about the people. I have been trying to be that way. I personally don’t want to dislike people . I know I’m probably offending you now by saying something you don’t believe in. I heard a saying that I like. It is my favorite “it is what it is”. Anyway I just thought I would let you know my Goal is to love everyone and hate the sun not the person. I’m still a work in process. It may take me a long time to master the concept. But I’m trying and praying. I’m sharing something real. You might not know where I’m coming from or think that I’m just saying a load of bs.