Well, firstly, whether you're a wolf or not, participation in society ensures a certain amount of humanity. You're not any less human either way. Miscellaneous objects aren't going to help you determine what you are or, more importantly, who you are. It sounds pleasant to think that a simple object can give you everything you want, but that's just not realistic. It takes time, a lot of self-reflection, and a lot of work on yourself. There's a lot of information out there, but not much of it is very helpful for this sort of thing. The most you might get is a good history lesson. Lastly, there aren't clearly defined "symptoms" of being a wolf. You either are or you aren't. If you're asking the question at all, then that sets you apart from most people, but you have to ask why the question comes to mind. Do you think that being a wolf will free you from your problems, or is it simply a feeling you can't explain? Like Angel said, Amino is a newer place to connect with people on this subject, but there's only so much anyone else can do. Most of the work has to come from you.