Now this is where things get complicated because God is difficult to define and everyone has their own definitions which can be completely different from each other. I personally don't have the same definition as you seem to have. And you seem... confused? You call money, boys, clothes, myself, nature, food, drugs, etc. a god, and becoming a slave to it is bad, yet you consider a slave to Jesus good? It sounds like you're calling God bad and Jesus good which confuses me. Also, can someone not love another, even if they don't believe in Jesus, or even heard of Jesus? Because I respectfully disagree if you think people can't love without knowing Jesus which is what you seem to be implying. But then again, we might also have different definitions of love..