All I know is that Jesus and His powers are very real.

God's heart is always to bring us to him in a gentle, loving way. So that he can save us from heartache and worse pain, but sometimes we don't listen, so he has to tell us a little stronger, but his love is always there for us as the great Father he is. Not to hurt us but to always help us. He always has our best interest at heart and sometimes we stray and don't realize it.

Examine yourself- truly believe on Christ. No other belief will save you.

Saving evidences- Do you have church membership, do you read the Bible everyday, etc?

He sounds rather abusive.