Sex in heaven, Creation myth, Higher power and God how I understand him.

I can't understand how heaven cannot have sex, for some reason in heaven sex if forbidden. People make out heaven as being a state where people are in love and harmony with each other. Being a virgin and celibate I can't see how one can live for eternity having no desire for a companion. While I do like my current state, I wouldn't mind having a girl if she was a gorgeous shapely virgin. For example, if Adam and Eve didn't eat from the forbidden fruit of knowledge we will live in paradise. My neighbor told me, "What makes someone think there would have been sex". It pretty obvious that if the earth needed to populate and sex was required. But then Jesus comes and makes sex obsolete in heaven. I think what makes life worthy is having a companion. I still believe in a higher power. One thing I struggle with religion is the creation stories and how they don't merit the understanding of the world as we know it. I have seen thing I also have a part of heart set that they are manifestations of my mind. I'm all over the map now, and it seems I have cursed myself with these visitations and hallucinations. yet, everything also pinpoints to a creator. The reason why I'm attracted to the God from the Bible is because he is love and pure and has a sense of innocence. Now let's think of a higher power if one put his faith in him, we must give him attributes but the only God that claims to be Love is the God from the Bible. I can see both the creation of this world without God or with God.