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A Mother’s Heart - From Fear to Understanding

I seek forgiveness from my son for the times I may have hurt him by not supporting his decision to follow Christianity. I also seek forgiveness from his dear friend, who inspired and supported him on his newfound spiritual journey.

As a mother, and as someone from a different faith, I was afraid and struggled to understand his choice. I believed that my own spiritual path was the right one, and I found it difficult to see beyond my own understanding.

But with time, I have come to realize that love should never depend on sharing the same beliefs. Faith is deeply personal, and each person has the right to follow the path that brings meaning, peace, and spiritual fulfillment to their life.

I love my son with all my heart. I am learning to respect his faith, as well as the faith of his better half, and to honor their spiritual journey, even when it is different from my own.

To my son, I am truly sorry for any pain I may have caused you. I seek your forgiveness with all my heart. And to your dear friend, I am also sorry if my words or actions ever caused you hurt.

As a mother, I am learning that acceptance does not require us to believe the same things, it simply asks us to love and respect one another. ❤🙏
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Explorer · 46-50, M
May your son and his dear friend feel the love behind your words, and may your family continue to grow together.
Sharada · F
@Explorer thank you.
TheWildEcho · 61-69, M
If hes a true Christian he'll forgive you and love you
Sharada · F
@TheWildEcho I really hope he forgives me fully. I know, it is not easy for him either. I didn’t handle it well initially. In fact I was terrible.
TheWildEcho · 61-69, M
@Sharada praying for your total reconciliation
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
It’s NEVER too late to repair a relationship and am sure your son will forgive you
Sharada · F
@Strictmichael75 thank you. I hope so too.
I'm not for religions but your growth in accepting another's personal choice is admirable.
Sharada · F
@froggtongue Thank you for your kind words.
Mrnotsonew · 100+, M
Just have to except him for how he is and just love him.
Sharada · F
@Mrnotsonew I agree. Thank you.
Mrnotsonew · 100+, M
@Sharada you are welcome.
GoFish ·
and what religion do you follow instead?
GoFish ·
@Sharada jewish christian stuff
Sharada · F
@GoFish That’s great to know.
GoFish ·
@Sharada thanks ☺
“The God of the Old Testament is arguably the most unpleasant character in all fiction: jealous and proud of it; a petty, unjust, unforgiving control-freak; a vindictive, bloodthirsty ethnic cleanser; a misogynistic, homophobic, racist, infanticidal, genocidal, filicidal, pestilential, megalomaniacal, sadomasochistic, capriciously malevolent bully.”

― Richard Dawkins, The God Delusion: A Study of Religious Belief and Skepticism
Sharada · F
@BlueSkyKing I understand that people have very different views about God, religions and spiritual paths. I am totally ignorant about Old Testament, however my son now probably believe in it. He is a practising Christian. I don’t know what he believes, however he seems to have moved away from the spiritual path where he grew up. I am now at peace with whatever it is.
@Sharada My disbelief took decades. You don’t hear about god supporting slavery at church.
Sharada · F
@BlueSkyKing I am sorry to hear that.
Would you have said the same if he suddenly decided to become gay or something else?
Amish · 22-25, M
@Royricky09 I can’t agree more. Good to see some sensible opinions.
@Sharada I am praying that your son will forgive you as that is what God calls us to do, forget each other. That is my utmost prayer for your family and that you can all respect each other's beliefs as you have said. That is the loving thing to do
Sharada · F
@LadyGrace Thank you very much ❤
Rambler · 61-69, M
Among other things, being a parent is a long path to understanding
Sharada · F
@Rambler Thank you ❤. Being a parent truly is a lifelong journey of learning, understanding, and letting go of our own expectations. I was controlled by my own expectations about my son and knowingly or unknowingly I ended up controlling his choices. Sometimes life teaches us what fear and differences cannot. I’m grateful for the lessons this journey has brought me and in this process I ended up hurting others, which I regret.
Convivial · 26-30, F
Sounds like you have made your peace..a good place to be in.... And as you say, the are many paths through life ..
Sharada · F
@Convivial I agree
@Convivial that is wisdom and that is pure love. That is a mother's pure love. God will bless you for it. Please tell your son I am praying for him and that I pray that he will forgive you and anyone else in your family so that you can all reunite in Harmony and fellowship.
Sharada · F
@LadyGrace Thank you Ma’am for your kind words and your wishes.
Amish · 22-25, M
Choice is one thing but brainwashing into religious conversions are on the rise.To tell someone else what they believe is not true is not so kind. That’s manipulation or spiritual abuse.
Sharada · F
@Amish A person’s faith should ultimately be their own choice. I agree that no one should be manipulated, and at the same time no one should be controlled as well.
Amish · 22-25, M
@Sharada Respect should work both ways: Christians should be free to share their faith, and non-Christians should be equally free to question it or reject it without being treated as morally deficient for doing so.
And as a mother, I don't think you did anything wrong by expressing a different opinion. I noticed that you apologised to his friend, which was gracious of you. But I also wonder: did his friend make an effort to understand your perspective when you disagreed? That matters too.

 
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