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A bragging brother.

This could all be me and I'm sure there was a pang of envy here.

At fellowship at church today I talked to a visiting couple because their church was currently closed.

The man in the couple told me he's an account manager... great , so far nothing wrong with that, I always got on well with the sales department in my former company and I did sales awhile myself.

What didn't sit well with me was when he said it it pays the bills (nothing wrong there) but then he boasted that he's got plenty of spare money to do what he wants.

I was British about it and maybe my face only changed subtly but that didn't sit well with me. When I'm living off redundancy money and cannot do such things I don't want to hear statements like that.

In the car my wife agreed with my persective but there's certainly more layers.

Satan probably used that statement to try and get me envious, in a subtle way. "It's not as if he's an unbeliver, he's a believer who's doing better than you, surely God should give you such blessings too?"

Nothing wrong with celebrating, when I land a new job I will certainly celebrate and tell people at fellowship but I won't brag if it pays well.

Just a reminder to watch your words during fellowship.

Also a reminder to myself that God is sovereign over all of life's events and he has a path for me and I get to enjoy God's glory and blessings just as much as the brother that accidentally offended.
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CloudAngel80 · 41-45, F
If you took offense to HIS BOASTING, then it wasnt him whom youre unhappy with. We always have sins of the flesh lurking, i believe God exsposed an issue and area hes still working on with you. I too had God exspose an area in me over pride and arrogance. A lady was " better looking" than me and begsn trolling my social medias only to put me down and make me feel less than worthy. Any person i was chatting with, shed be a witch about it. I told her to shove it and she played this, " see a real christisn would.." card!
God showed me that its not about me, and i had to un ruffle my tail feathers. Sometimes as humans we do feel like they got more or they have better, but its pointless to be taking it inward, because God knows our hearts. He convicts us over it and we realize we got work to do daily. Theres a cute kids song our chur h teaches..hes STILL WORKING ON ME..to make me what i outta be, it took him just a week to make the moon and the stars, the sun and the earth and jupitar and mars. How loving and paitent he must be, cuz Hes still working on me!
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
Culturally, we Brits don't like talking about money anyway and are suspicious of people who do. But because Sunday worship is intended to take our minds beyond worldly matters to think more broadly about how the Spirit in our lives releases us from being concerned about money, it's no wonder that you were uncomfortable with that conversation. I would expect that kind of chat after worship to only be in somewhere that preaches the heretical 'prosperity gospel'.
@FreddieUK Yes he was saying other things that aren't boastful in themselves but...... tone.

Councillor mum and dad into NLP you really pay attention to these things! 😅

 
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