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Is adulting hard?

Soon I'll be starting a full-time job, and I'll have to be at least somewhat responsible. This is going to be a big change 😅
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Only for the first 40 years
ArtieKat · M
I'm nearly 69 now and I've still not mastered it. (I've not tried that hard to grow up, I must admit)
Barny52 · 56-60, M
You just have to get a job you enjoy and then the next 40yrs will be ok x
RebelFox · 36-40, F
You’re screwed 😆
rissa · 22-25, F
@RebelFox thanks for the encouragement 😂
TexChik · F
The only difference between successful adulting and being a kid is a self-discipline and fore thought. Also, the consequences for lack of self-discipline as an adult are usually disastrous. So, plan ahead and be conservative and be smart.
Justforfun65 · 56-60, M
Don’t do it run away
I think adulting is way easier than college or high school. Congrats— you’re way past the toughest parts of life
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
You're only now having to become "at least somewhat responsible"? Being "somewhat responsible" to the extent of my capabilities was ingrained into me by parents from as far back as I can remember, and kept increasing as I could handle more and become more independent and have a part-time job and not just an allowance. So it was never a big shock. I raised my kids the same way, and my grandkids have been raised the same. It's part of parenting -- nurturing, preparing, teaching self-sufficiency.
RupertCornelius · 36-40, M
just because you're becoming an adult, doesn't mean you have to grow up. technically i'm 37 but mentally i'm about 12.
Yeah I couldn’t go out and party every other night just on Ladies Night ( usually on Wednesdays) and the weekends not 24/7 like prior 🍻🍻
You'll be fine! Being concerned about getting it right is a GREAT sign of maturity! 😊😊😊👍👍👍
DavyPNW · 56-60, M
It can be, but it is done by the vast majority of folks. You can do this.
Yulianna · 22-25, F
don't give in to the pressure... always indulge your inner child!
SW-User
I've never had a full-time job, but you go girl!
its 9am.. and im done adulting for today...
It's very hard... Good luck! You'll need it.
Thespis · M
Adulting is hard, but it's got it's ups and downs. It was a huge up for me as an adult to realize. I make my own money and can buy my own groceries. It was a huge down to figure out why my parents never let me eat a gallon of ice cream for dinner. Still have to apologize to my gut for that one.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Sad, you will have many ups and downs
SW-User
If you do it right ...yes
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
It is a big change. If you aren’t responsible it’s really hard. Money management is your friend.
rissa · 22-25, F
@MrBrownstone by money management you mean buying new clothes and shoes right? 😂
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@rissa No. Live within your means. Don’t have thousands in credit card debt.
JakeB · 31-35, M
Do you need help being responsible?
Kayla1128 · 22-25, F
Message meeee
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
stc615 · M
Hard and sucks lol
river52 · 70-79, M
How is the job going?
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
It always has been for me
No but it sucks
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
Chickie · F
I guess that's why people wish they were a kid again. It's abrupt which makes it overwhelming.
Sometimes it is, but you should be okay at this point.
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