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My son from my first marriage who is in his 30s , I have heard through his kids mother is now homeless and living on the streets with no where to go . After alienating all of his family and so called friends in which he made some bad choices he has no where to turn and no one to relly on . I have no sympathy for him , and I know that sounds cruel but after he alienated me he only has himself to blame . Hopefully this will be the wake up call for him that you reap what you sow .

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PepsiColaP

idc how much my child alienates me ,i would always be there for them. also people usually withdraw when their mental health is suffering. not that we have enough information to know why he chose to do so but I would try to understand him and support him despite being pushed away. being a parent doesnt come with terms and conditions ,you are a parent forever

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

@PepsiColaP Not when your child knowingly threatens to ruin your life and accuse you of horrible things just because he didnt like being pulled up for doing wrong when he knew he was in the wrong . He is a nasty piece of work who cares for no one but himself . He threatened the mother of his kids , threatened to kill his mothers partner and alienated he adopted parents as well .

PepsiColaP

@Rhode57 sounds like a person in need of professional help

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

@PepsiColaP I tried to get him help but hes a grown man so it had to come from him and as far as he is concerned its everyone else to blame and not him .

PepsiColaP

@Rhode57 sure he has to want to help himself too but that can be hard to seek when youre so isolated as he sounds . sometimes holding back your judgements to help someone get where they need to be is the best way to go . idk but i dont think that ppl end up behaving that way for no reason ,not that it excuses it. but maybe maybe more ppl than just him are responsible for this

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

@PepsiColaP No its all him and the choices in friends he has made . He thinks its alright to go around abusing people and that they should just shrug it off . He doesnt seem to understand his actions have consequences and now it seems he is learning a life lesson . Hopefully he will sort himself out and get help but I doubt it . His kids mother begged him to get help , he didnt and now he is paying for it .

PepsiColaP

@Rhode57 do you not think that our choices as adults reflect on our upbringing? not entirely or always but in the big picture

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

@PepsiColaP No as an adult his choices are his own . He was taught right from wrong etc but he chose another way . Why we dont know .