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Some people just can’t cope with kids. What she did was sick but I also wished there was more help for people who are struggling after having babies. My mum got help when she couldn’t cope with me when I was born my dad told me so. I think she paid for it though. She still gets help now to deal with my sisters. And it’s sad because a lot don’t know how to get help for themselves. I don’t want any kids until I’m capable for giving them a decent life , I think it’s only responsible to try to get help first.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User no. Don't do that. Don't be an apologist for murderers or abusers.
Having children is a goddamn choice and if you're not ready to be a parent, you HAVE options. Once you choose to bring them into the world, you don't get to act like you're the victim of some hardship.
Having children is a goddamn choice and if you're not ready to be a parent, you HAVE options. Once you choose to bring them into the world, you don't get to act like you're the victim of some hardship.
Rutterman · 46-50, M
@DearAmbellina2113 CA's parents would have been delighted to care for their grandchild. That certainly was a viable option, but she just wouldn't allow it.