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Is this the fate all people are doomed to as they age?

Dad is 66, formerly a practical man who once focused on getting the best out of any situation and refusing to be beat by negativity.

He’s been retired almost two years and now his small talk is based on a things that annoy him. When idle he watches British and American politics - I suppose they are rants rather than news reports - and has generally a dim view of everything.

I try to get him out the house regularly and give him lots of time with his granddaughters to keep his mind active. But in the short space of two years he’s gone from pragmatic capable guy to a grumbling old git.

Do I keep trying to give him other things to think about other than online rage or let him become just another angry old ranter?
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AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
Can you get him interested in some sorta part time voluntary work?

It'd give him back a purpose in life and it'd help occupy his mind in a more positive way.
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
@AntisocialTroll We did try but he wouldn’t follow it up.
AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
@WintaTheAngle Does he have any interests or hobbies?
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
@AntisocialTroll Like be he is ex RAF abd was going to become a researcher for a local memorial museum, but he never returned their calls.
AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
@WintaTheAngle Do you think he might be clinically depressed? Or is it just that work was always his whole reason for being?

If you can find something he enjoys, be it model railways, wood turning, anything at all that interests him will help unless it's a depression thing.